Before and After you Knew you had a Big Dick

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I know I have a good sized dick based on reactions to it over the years, but I can't help but still feel small based on how I felt about it most of my life. So I can confidently be naked but still subconsciously think people are just being nice
 

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I know I have a good sized dick based on reactions to it over the years, but I can't help but still feel small based on how I felt about it most of my life. So I can confidently be naked but still subconsciously think people are just being nice


I know that exact same feelings
 

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I was very insecure / shy before I realised. I would hide myself when getting changed, cover myself in the communal showers, look for excuses to not be naked in front of other people.

When I realised, I became the opposite - I started to take opportunities to show off, not cover myself up, stay longer in the showers. I became a bit of an exhibitionist.
 

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Bit different for me.
My discovery of my larger size was directly linked to experiences growing up being stared at in communal showers every day and simultaneously (and very confusedly) having a bisexual awakening.

So, for me, the "after knowing" is moreso about my sexuality than something like self esteem or ego.

Plus, I probably always had some degree of ED. All throughout my 20s I had such extreme opposite experiences of my size with partners. Really fucked with my head.
Thank fuck for Cialis. Finally feeling comfortable, confident.
 

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I know I have a good sized dick based on reactions to it over the years, but I can't help but still feel small based on how I felt about it most of my life. So I can confidently be naked but still subconsciously think people are just being nice
Same here
 

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Just due to access to porn, I knew I was big from a very young age. I basically just compared myself to like Jeff Stryker, Rick Donovan, Peter north, etc and thought I was about their size.

But I did have a very late growth spurt when I was 19ish, nothing too dramatic, I’m still short , but my dick seemingly came along for the ride. Grew like another inch and a half ish, and really filled out, especially my flaccid size. I dunno how big I was soft before, but I basically developed a new bulge I didn’t feel was existent before, at least not to the point where I had to put any thought into concealing before that point.
But it was exciting for me, even though sometimes I would get thoughts like maybe I have cancer or a tumor making it so big and would worry (not joking haha, 19 year old logic) I basically didn’t know penises could get as big as I had gotten, I had never seen one, they’re not too hard to find nowadays though. Especially with sites like lpsg as saturated as they are now with legit monsters.
 

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Before I knew:
Most of the differences in comparative size in the locker room I attributed to everybody being in different stages of puberty. I was bigger than most, some were bigger than me, some were tiny. Early and late bloomers, showers and growers, I thought. I was more concerned about walking around the barracks with a hard-on at 18, not the size of it. Around 22 I overheard my roommate say to her boyfriend, "It's so big, it hangs halfway down your leg!" Mine did not and I had an epic crush on her so I felt terribly insecure and hopeless. A few months later I had a physical, including my first hernia exam. My Dr. pulled my underwear down, paused a moment, then matter-of-factly said, "You are exceptionally well-endowed." He did the exam, told me to get dressed and said, "I did hernia exams at an induction center while I was in the Army, you're the biggest I've ever seen."
After I knew:
Definitely walked out with with a new swagger that has never gone away. A "Speak softly and carry a big dick" vibe. A year later when my roommate moved for school she confided that her boyfriend rarely got hard or lasted very long. Didn't change things between us, made me feel good about myself but kinda sorry for her.
I then moved in with a college buddy who was dating a stripper and he would bring me along to hang out at the club until she got off work. I would get 3 for 1, grinding lap dances from her friends because apparently, she said, "Sometimes I can't tell if guys get hard. You get big and hard!" Girl likes to know she has the power to arouse. The a-ha moment came at the trough in the men's room. No urinals, just a 6 foot long trough just above knee level. The looks I got from the ones who couldn't pee because their dicks were too hard when I drained my 7" semi that was an inch or two longer than theirs were priceless. Surprise, shock, embarrassment, anger, "How dare you bring a dick like that in here!"
After I wore a pair of pants to practice that were so tight my bass sat on my length like it was on a shelf, the singer in our band started bragging about my size. He said, "If I had your dick, I'd never shut up about it! I would fuck everything!" I said, "You're a singer! You already fuck everything, that's why you have unexpected kids!"
After everybody knew:
But he spread the word and I had to deal with curiosity seekers and unattractive size queens. Not anyone I wanted. Some were one-dimensional in both directions. The woman with the big tits who only wanted the big dick couldn't understand how someone could not want her big tits...So what if she's banging on my door at 3am and we've never met before? She has big tits and vodka!
I'm okay with those who just want my dick as long as I want them too.
 

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My wife said when she found out I wasnt hung…she breathed a sigh of relief as she wanted normal soze and had giys who were very well hing and she enjoyed it sometimes but overall….she didnt
 
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Thanks to some of the ladies I've either messaged, or spoken with through various posts on this forum. For the most part people here are very open minded and laid back. Most of y'all have made the last 12-13 years when I've come to check things out a real treat. Some, people not so much but a good 95% of conversations I've had here have been real cool
 

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Before I knew, I thought I was way smaller than anyone else. Was teased for being a nerd and because I was in gifted class and stuff like that. Watching porn made me think I didn't measure up either. I don't think finding out I was larger than average really changed my ways, just made me stop worrying about how small I thought I was and enjoying what I have.















I'm 7 inches and thick when hard. About 4 inches and still kinda thick when soft. It wasn't until college that I saw other naked men and then I just assumed they were smaller. I fell asleep wearing just boxers and woke up to my room mates football team friends staring at what had made its way out of my boxers and they mentioned how they wished they were that size. One of them said he was. I wish it had turned into a circle jerk or something but I pretended I was still asleep. My room mate and I compared boners and he mentioned the incident and I was surprised to see the 6'4" 275lb football player was a couple inches less than me. That's when I really learned it was bigger. After that when I was made to wear a dance belt in a Shakespeare play when no one else needed to reinforced it.

I do enjoy some SPH with tiny guys and I prefer a smaller partner. I'm a top but on the very rare occasion I bottom it has to be a small one. I have more than enough for both of us so size doesn't matter to me and I don't make an issue of it