Many of you ladies have discussed the difference you feel between smaller and larger penises. For those of you who stayed in a relationship with a smaller man for an extended period of time, I was wondering how that affected your libido. Additionally, I was wondering how you compensated for the smaller guys inadequacies. My wife and I have an amazingly open emotional relationship with gentle honesty being the rule. A while back my wife confided that she hadnt had any libido for some time and she felt awful about it. She assured me she loves sex when we do it, but the instances when she feels like it are few and far between. I am doing my best to be patient and understanding, but am still struggling with sex on the brain. We are both mid-twenties and in great shape. During sex, I do my best to be attentive with kissing, oral sex, and holding off until shes orgasm before I finish. We shake things up and have occasional quickies to keep things interesting, and she has always said she likes what we have. I wholeheartedly believe she was say something if she wanted something different. All this leads me to my question. Could my wifes low libido be attributed to my penis size? I believe I am a touch thicker than average at 6.5 x 6, but when I enter my wife, there is no resistance to speak of. The first time we had sex, I actually looked down to see if I was in because I could barely feel anything. This is probably the only thing my wife wouldnt bring up as a possible problem in our sex life. Im afraid that she doesnt feel anything during sex and that has in-part led to her decreased libido. Id really appreciate hearing other womens experience regarding size and libido. Thanks, everyone.