Beginner anal play - dildo/douche/lube recs?

undercover

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I've only been out for a little while and am beginning to explore anal play on my own in prep for actually being ready to get fucked by a guy.

I've messed around in my shower, cleaned my hole, and fingered myself (was able to use two fingers), but would like to progress to using toys and actually try simulating the fucking experience. I'm really interesting in bottoming but don't want my first time to be a total shock to the system.

So, a few questions:

- What are some good "starter dildos" to use? Don't want to start off too big, but I'm ready for more than fingers. Also wondering if vibrating is worth it or not, or if butt plugs are better, etc. etc.

- Any recommendations for lube? I've just been using KY ultragel...

- I haven't had problems with hygiene so far but I think it would be smart to have a basic douche in case cleaning is in order. Anything cheap but effective that you guys recommend?

Appreciate the guidance of this forum.
 
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