I have a history of some duration that might be of help to you and others interested in jelqing. I inadvertently got into manual jelqing when I was about 14. I found that jelqing after masturbating felt good and so I did it a lot. At 14 I measured 6 x 5 which at the time having nothing to compare to I thought was small. By the time I reached 18 I had grown to 7.5 x 5.5, I'm now 24 and measure 9+ x 5.8 - 6. I can't tell you if the steady increase in size is just natural growth or a combination of that and the result of consistent and frequent jelquing. I still jelq periodically, but jo a lot less as my sex life is quite active. I do believe that 9", while it looks great at the gym, is an impediment to
casual sex. I've been turned down for sex frequently once my intended partner has seen my size...they usually settle for a bj...which, I enjoy, but the experience is frustrating. In longer term relationships, when I've gained the trust of the partner, I use lots of foreplay, patience and lube. Certainly causing painful sex is a sure way not to be invited to return for more. If you want to discuss this more, pls pvt me.