being a bottom - questions about frequency

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  1. B_thickjohnny

    B_thickjohnny New Member

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    I love sex and feel like I could do it every day but I don't. Even though I use condoms I'm scared. Years ago I didn't think twice. Hooked up on a regular basis. Then I was in two relationships (the last one for 4 years) and since then I'm hesitant. I can't figure out what's holding me back.

    Maybe it's about health. I had something strange happen recently - mucous leaking from my ass. My doctor said it could be from some trauma. I thought back and remember being hammered by a black guy (God, he was good) and knowing it hurt but going on with it because it also felt good. :rolleyes:

    So to all you bottoms out there, have you ever felt this way? Do you feel you need sex regularly but hold back for one reason or another?
     
  2. D_Evita_Zane

    D_Evita_Zane New Member

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    While single yes. I'm not a fan of hookups (if I'm not connected to the person then I'm NOT going to enjoy sex with them).
     
  3. circpenis

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    It may just be age. I find that I get more cautious about things as I get older. I mean, I'm still horny as ever and and much wiser about sex. But, I seem to have lost much of the urge to sleep around. And yes, I do worry about catching diseases.

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    good Lord man, I'd love to get connected to you :tongue:
     
  5. mandoman

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    mucus can be from something as simple as allergies.
     
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