Being a Domina......

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  1. diamond

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    I was wondering if there are other dominant women (sexually) on LPSG. From the posts that I have read over the years it seems that most women on LPSG are submissive in nature.
    Don't get me wrong anyone who has partaken in the BDSM lifestyle knows that submission is a gift and not to be taken lightly.
    As a "Domina" I truly enjoy submissive men. The ability to use a strap on and milking my partners prostate gland gives me immense pleasure sexually.

    So out of curiosity how many women on LPSG define themselves as Submissive or Dominant?
     
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    Diamond ... you truly are.
    I am submissive in the bedroom and like nothing more than to be restrained and anally toyed with whilst being denied penis pleasure despite mine being large. Most strap-on porn involves guys with tiny cocks being humiliated. I'd love to create my own perfect porn scene. Personally i love being tied up with my cock and balls tied tightly whilst having my ass stretched to the max. My wife also enjoys this but it is more my thing than hers so unless i initiate such play it doesn't happen.
    Check out my ball-sretcher pics.
    If requested i can take some pictures of my cock and balls in their maximum bondage gear.
     
  3. B_subgirrl

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    I'm a sub (as if you couldn't have guessed from the name).

    There are a few Dominant women floating around. Pain4Angel comes to mind, although she hasn't been here much lately.
     
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    My ex first and fourth wife (we married twice:biggrin1:) was and man was it a turn on!!!
     
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    I myself would love to see those pictures. You have a very rare wife, treat her with great care.
     
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    I love being submissive in the bedroom. I beg my husband to Dominate me more often. He is not really into it at all.

    I truly hate my high school guidance counselor though for not telling me women could be paid a ton of cash for being a Domina. This would of been a great career choice. All over NY professional Dominas do very well because they are rare.
     
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    Submissive here, all the way.
     
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    My gf is a professional domme. But I am not a sub at all. Silly.
     
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    damn diamond.. that is so sexy.
    love a girl who likes sharing her toys!
     
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    id let you fuck my tight asshole anyday sexy ;)
     
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    I love my wife very much and she is treated very well.
    However she is unaware of my activity on this site and so I feel some guilt.

    In saying that, here are some pictures of my cock and balls very tightly bound.
    Still bound as I type. :p

    http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/data/500/IMAG00111.JPG

    http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/data/500/IMAG00147.JPG

    http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/data/500/IMAG00162.JPG
     
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    I am a lifestyle Domme. I only have sex with men who are well above average. To me size preference has nothing to do with dominance or submission.
     
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    Not that I am available, but out of interest: Do I 'measure up'?
     
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    Submissive all the way and I am collared. Master controls most of my life and I love it. To me, being well endowed is something all Doms should be, as it's a huge power thing to me that he can hurt me with his cock.
     
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    For me being submissive whilst having my big cock denied pleasure is a real turn on.
    Usually I will spend the greatest part of the time performing cunnilingus whilst having my bound balls slapped and squeezed.
    My favourite toys to be used on my ass are usually much bigger than my cock. It seems I like to imagine my cock is small during this kind of play.
    Of course this is not the only kind of play we have. There are often occasions where I will take the lead and do my best to cram most of my cock in but a sensitive cervix means that caution is the key word. I do love to pin my wife to the bed and dole out a good pounding.
     
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    I'm not completely into tying my bits up or having them tied nor am I into that with my bf. But in terms of taking things to places where I want them to go, I have no problem doing that. I have no problem holding my bf down on the bed and fucking him as hard as I want while I put my hands around his throat pinning him down, getting everything I demand of him in that moment to please myself. (He loves it too btw)

    I don't own a strap on but I've been after one for a while now. *wink*

    I also have my moments where I want him to just completely take every advantage of me and I just want to submit my body to him to do with what ever he pleases. Which could include him tying me down to the bed. So I guess in that sense we take turns being dominant and submissive in that respect.
     
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    Dominant here. I very much enjoy the lifestyle and finally found the man I trust with My own submission. What a release that is. ;)
     
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    Dominate here.
     
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    I would love to be submissive, but haven't met anyone man enough I guess. I always end up with the reigns where I end up collaring them, spanking them and chastising them for not pleasing me. I don't mind because I get off on it. Maybe that's why my dream is to one day use a strap-on a beautiful bodybuilder-type one day. I get chills just thinking about it:)
     
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    I'm not a bodybuilder, but you can practice on me until you meet one!
     
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