So many times I've read the threads about "WHAT IF" your friend broke his arms... would you help him out. Then the straight guys say "thats what a girlfriend is for" So the stars have aligned and I need your advice: SITUATION: My best friend and college roommate was involved in a serious accident two nights ago. Drunk driver ran a light and hit him so now he has 2 broke arms and light burns on his hands and had one dislocated hip. TRANSLATION: He can't wash, feed or groom himself. He can't go to the bathroom unattended. You get the picture. So I told him since his family lives up north... and we're in the south, that he should stay in the guest bedroom and I'd just work from home and take care of him...... His girl is in Spain for Spring/Summer Semester so that counts her out on helping with him. Me and him are VERY close. Closer than me and my brother ever was. So what do I do when the HomeHealth Nurses leave next week and I have to bathe him, and all... and what happens till his hands and arms heal for poor ol' man down stairs???