Being a sex therapist on LPSG.................

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I'm sure you don't need to hear this from me, Deb, but you don't look anything like "large" from your pictures. But you knew that.

It's a mystery to me how someone can send an uninvited PM and then expect the recipient to feel obligated to do something about it.
 

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I'm sure you don't need to hear this from me, Deb, but you don't look anything like "large" from your pictures. But you knew that.

It's a mystery to me how someone can send an uninvited PM and then expect the recipient to feel obligated to do something about it.


Thanks rob, you are a real sweety for saying that,,...but the pics are post the 50 pound weight loss...
 

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Dear Deb and LPSG members,

I did not want offend you but it seems i did...I am so sorry.
This site is not a "porn site" to me and i am really here to learn about other peoples experiences and i will need to read more from now on ( and less writing in my bad english ).

I did not want to describe you as a "large girl" in the sense you understand it. I am so sorry for that. I realize that i have a problem with my writing in english; wrong word choices... yes, language limitations indeed.

My intention was sincere and i PM you with no intention of "wank" ( sorry but i dont know what that means...). I did not realize that to PM a member of the site was maybe to intimate. I am sorry about that too.

From now on i will readmore and try not to write because i am aware of my limitations here.

Well, now anyone has read my post...

Deb (and all other members): I want to tell you that i am VERY VERY SORRY and that i apologize.I did not want to molest you in anyways; i maybe just do not know yet how to behave here. I will not happen again.

Thank you

daniel
 

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diamond i think this guy was in some way insulting his ex gf by insulting you. I think he only targted u because u are the most adamant size queen on this site. Your the only woman who's minimum requirement is someone huge.

but its a silly ridiculous message ...who would read all that
 

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My personal fav was one i got from a guy saying he and his mum liked my posts and wanted to chat sometime :confused: Really, any guys reading this know that mentioning your mother wont score you any points unless you are talking about why you were on jerry Springer.



As for Daniel.. If you are happy with your cock then someday some woman will be too.

And stop calling women "large" no matter what you are refering to 99.9% of the time it will be taken as an insult
 

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Deb (and all other members): I want to tell you that i am VERY VERY SORRY and that i apologize.I did not want to molest you in anyways; i maybe just do not know yet how to behave here. I will not happen again.

Thank you

daniel

As Daniel's reply shows, communication can be a problem when you are not a native English/American speaker, throw in typing errors and it can get pretty interesting. Some forgiveness is in order, but new members should read more posts to see how LPSG works before posting and certainly before PM'ing members.

Daniel: There seems to be a large element of Small Penis Humiliation in your PM; LPSG is not your support group.

Daniel: wank = masturbating
 

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The issue was of course in our case me being to slim/thin to fill her or stimulate her through vaginal lovemaking. As time went on i wanted to discuss the "problem" but she always refused to talk about;why? i still don´t know till today. She may have feared loosing me; maybe she didn not want to recognize that there was an issue at all. That made things more difficult. Instead of finding a solution things got worse.

Dear Deb,

There are many difficulties in negotiating communication through the internet. I believe the OP bears somewhat of an emotional scar from being hurt in a relationship that was ruined over something that nature was responsible for. From experience, I know this to be something that can be very devastating. To love another human only to discover after some amount of time that the parts just don't fit well is not only heartbreaking but extremely frustrating as this is something that we really have no control over unlike some other domestic issue like whose turn it is to take out the garbage for example. It feels like the gods are against us in an area that is meant to be most intimate and beautiful. It is unusual but not uncommon.

He wrote seeking some kind of understanding of what is expected from others of the opposite sex and possibly through this knowledge he might gain a way to prevent this kind of unfortunate situation from happening again. You are presented as possibly safe to discuss this with by your openess with sexual language and opinions in your posts. I see many were quick to group his remarks as pervy and insulting. I understand this too as it is very easy to have grenades launched through the invisible electrons that connect us. The OP apologizes for his miscommunication, and for even attempting to write to you. This is a gentleman as far as I am concerned. He has over apologized as I believe it is was well within reason to be able to ask a sexual question through a sexual forum of a member speaking of sexuality despite communication difficulties. We are sometimes quick to play the victim and sometimes slow to heal from past hurt as well. I see this on both sides of these posts. It is simply within our nature, as to be fully human is to be vulnerable.
 

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A lot of angry women in this world. Carry on sisters, but take this advice if you want to, that I read the other day:

"Don't waste time with self-pity."