Being a size Queen/King is hard.

[TheBiggestM]

Hey there, I am M/27 years old, and a Size queen. It is odd that a gay person is a size queen, especially considering "size doesn't matter" for most homosexual men, but this is not the case for me. I have a preference to bigger penises, especially those above 7 inches. I remember I tried discussion it before on a gay subreddit, and I was shamed to be a porn addict for this preference. Do other size queen's/king relate? How do you find your ideal hookups? I certainly don't have luck as most big dick owners seem to be straight, or female leaning to say the least, and when I thought I found the one, they are either unresponsive or ghost me.

Maybe I need to discuss this topic thoroughly with other like minded people, and hopefully I can understand myself better for being a size queen.

 

[jamrock1876]

Could be the people responding are insecure and projecting their resentment with size shaming, everyone is entitled to their own preferences and opinions and it shouldn't be a bother to them to have to worry about people putting them down for such, that said id suggest grindr tinder and doublelist to find a match. Imo I find size queens to be very attractive as they know what they want and will express that during sex. Larger guys tend to get into their own heads and settle for any or everything but generally don't find what they want due to being lusted after by people at times don't even really like big dicks but want to be attached to one if that makes any sense. I've been in some relationships with some of the most bizarre and insecure people due to my size and they never ended well.

 

[Shepardson]

especially considering "size doesn't matter" for most homosexual men

New here I take it?

 

[TheBiggestM]

New here I take it?

I infact am new haha. I never used the platform, but may as well explore it for body positivity in future.

Could be the people responding are insecure and projecting their resentment with size shaming, everyone is entitled to their own preferences and opinions and it shouldn't be a bother to them to have to worry about people putting them down for such, that said id suggest grindr tinder and doublelist to find a match. Imo I find size queens to be very attractive as they know what they want and will express that during sex. Larger guys tend to get into their own heads and settle for any or everything but generally don't find what they want due to being lusted after by people at times don't even really like big dicks but want to be attached to one if that makes any sense. I've been in some relationships with some of the most bizarre and insecure people due to my size and they never ended well.

It's weird, because I did explore it thoroughly before, and I never get the real appeal or excitement when I see regular dicks or "regular" dicks. It's not that I am insecure about my own size, moreso that penises always fascinated me. And I guess with a big one there is more to touch/, look at, and feel of course. Though with how the gay community is as of now, big penises are favoured regardless if you're insecure or a size queen, or shamed upon cause it values the unimportant aspect of a body as most would say. For me it's just, I really enjoy it no matter what. I wish I could explore it more with other people, or discuss it with like-minded size queens of course, but it's hard to find such people I figured haha. Grindr I did try, but had no luck, and tindr is.. casual dating I figured, I doubt I would be able to find someone with a big dick, unless I could look into their pants.

 

[LeafyGreenBoi]

I think it is wrong to shame people, but I think there is a distinction between shaming and criticizing, and I think it’s fair to criticize someone for placing so much importance on a body part. Because people can’t change that without extreme treatments or surgeries.

Imagine telling someone, “look, you’re a great person, but your skin color just isn’t doing it for me”. It’s like… that person has no control over their skin color. And it’s the same thing with size of body parts, as well.

There are people on these forums who call out people for their insecurity-based reactions, but it is TOTALLY reasonable to be insecure when people are literally telling you that you’re not good enough based on a factor largely outside your control.

 

[Evenflow618]

You can’t find it because it’s rare. A big dick is not common.

 

[jamrock1876]

I think it is wrong to shame people, but I think there is a distinction between shaming and criticizing, and I think it’s fair to criticize someone for placing so much importance on a body part. Because people can’t change that without extreme treatments or surgeries.

Imagine telling someone, “look, you’re a great person, but your skin color just isn’t doing it for me”. It’s like… that person has no control over their skin color. And it’s the same thing with size of body parts, as well.

There are people on these forums who call out people for their insecurity-based reactions, but it is TOTALLY reasonable to be insecure when people are literally telling you that you’re not good enough based on a factor largely outside your control.

I wasn't implying that it wasn't criticizing, it is but taking it to a level of making a remark about their own personal preference (nothing to do with whoever they don't prefer being "good enough") which their intitled to as to make them feel it is unjust (shame) Just because someone doesn't prefer a part of someone's body for whatever reason they have doesn't make them a bad person at all, we're all built differently and there are millions of people out there that would love whatever others don't particularly like, it's a part of life. It wouldn't be very honest to pretend to just prefer everything about everybody, that's just impossible, one glove doesn't fit all but everyone has the right fit out there. Also the freedom of choice and expression is what makes sex such an important aspect of a relationship when you do find that right fit.

 

[jamrock1876]

Also wanted to add that recently during my sexcapades I've noticed an increasingly amount of people compartmentalizing hung guys as "daddies" which I've always found to be a huge turn off, now if I told someone I don't prefer to be called such would it be criticizing? No, I would just be openly understanding enough to not let it bother me and to not be called that during sex. If we can be adults and respect that I won't feel an obligation to feel, hence show any resentment over it and then move on. I understand it isn't the same as a permanent body part but it really is an annoying trend to me.

 

[TheBiggestM]

I think it is wrong to shame people, but I think there is a distinction between shaming and criticizing, and I think it’s fair to criticize someone for placing so much importance on a body part. Because people can’t change that without extreme treatments or surgeries.

Imagine telling someone, “look, you’re a great person, but your skin color just isn’t doing it for me”. It’s like… that person has no control over their skin color. And it’s the same thing with size of body parts, as well.

There are people on these forums who call out people for their insecurity-based reactions, but it is TOTALLY reasonable to be insecure when people are literally telling you that you’re not good enough based on a factor largely outside your control.

There is however a thing such as preferences. Some people may prefer people of colour over white people for example, for multitude of reasons: attractiveness, personality, or even just the looks of course, and this applies for most things as well. However I agree that things like dick size and skin colour are biologically predetermined, so it should not be put as to a high value. I already feel to some extend bad about being a size queen, because it makes me not just look unapproachable and biased, but I am limited to a specific group of people that is in the 5% that are above average. It makes me sad, somewhat desperate to some extend, considering I don't receive the same amount of sexual pleasure as a regular sized dick.

Of course I can settle with other attractive traits like body type and personality, and see if erotic scenarios can be explored with my partner, but if I had a choice I would probably go with the big dick. I like the idea that it's so big that it's a struggle, to find creative ways and solutions to make it comfortable for both. Maybe a bit hilarious how it flops around. There are probably some subconscious feelings towards bigger members for me that I don't wholeheartedly understand, hence I'm trying to find more like minded size queen's.

 

[51arledge]

I will come out proudly and say that I was a size queen from the start.
From my earliest fantasies (long before there was such a thing as "on-line" let alone Internet porn), I longed to pla with gus with above average cocks. Fortunately, I'm 7.5 inches and that has probably helped to attract other big dicks. My first BF, in college, was bigger than mine but I don't think we ever measured or discussed our sizes. I also had a couple of BJ buddies around that time whose cocks were bigger than mine.
My husband's cock is shorter than mine, but quite thick.
I have had a couple FBs in the last 10 years who were around 8"---both of them wanted to bottom for me, but I loved having all that equipment in my mouth!
I have also fucked quite a few guys with smaller cocks and have generally also swallowed their loads, but my preference is certainly for playing with big dicks even as I'm fucking them.

 

[Illbeg4BigCock]

Total Size Queen here and proud of it!! Just look at my screen name ha! It’s actually not difficult to find big cocks if you look in the right places. Feel free to reach out to me if you’d like.

 

[TheBiggestM]

Total Size Queen here and proud of it!! Just look at my screen name ha! It’s actually not difficult to find big cocks if you look in the right places. Feel free to reach out to me if you’d like.

Oh please I am begging, Each time I'm looking for one it's someone who steals dick pics or its someone who claims to be bigger than they are so they can sell content on OF Like, I want some original fun with a big one, get to know the big dick owners better, and of course have the intercourse..

 

[bravesoldier]

It got so hard for after my first really big cock. Not so much extreme length. but fucking mammoth girth. He's 7 in length by 6.5 in girth. The first time my mouth and throat got stretched so wide that it was almost humiliating (not truly humiliating) was when things started turning for me. I still love sucking guys with less than what I've become addicted to, but oh man, what a feverish addiction I have come to have, and it seems to only get stronger as time goes by. My big cock guy is what I'd consider an alpha top even though he is a sweet guy and not at all cocky or insensitive. He has sucked me a few times but in general my reward is sucking his cock then turning my yearning hole up to him. When I've nursed his mouth stretching cock for 30-45 minutes, he tears me open again; that is all I get or want.

I'm evolving to a feeling that it is my place to please him and that's all I want.

 

[Notnick77]

Ask how they measure up (at some point in the convo not right out the gate) and if it's not big enough just move on (maybe let them down gently). Don't need to tell them they aren't big enough, that's rude.

 

[TheBiggestM]

It got so hard for after my first really big cock. Not so much extreme length. but fucking mammoth girth. He's 7 in length by 6.5 in girth. The first time my mouth and throat got stretched so wide that it was almost humiliating (not truly humiliating) was when things started turning for me. I still love sucking guys with less than what I've become addicted to, but oh man, what a feverish addiction I have come to have, and it seems to only get stronger as time goes by. My big cock guy is what I'd consider an alpha top even though he is a sweet guy and not at all cocky or insensitive. He has sucked me a few times but in general my reward is sucking his cock then turning my yearning hole up to him. When I've nursed his mouth stretching cock for 30-45 minutes, he tears me open again; that is all I get or want.

I'm evolving to a feeling that it is my place to please him and that's all I want.

I wish I had a partner like this! This sounds heavenly, and I would love to enjoy such an experience!

Ask how they measure up (at some point in the convo not right out the gate) and if it's not big enough just move on (maybe let them down gently). Don't need to tell them they aren't big enough, that's rude.

You'd be surprised how many men lie or even don't want to show cock pics/evidence. Especially prominent on dating apps and Reddit. I saw some people use a fake "big dick ruler" just to pass as massive and I hate it.

Like, I wish it was easier for me to find someone, but it becomes harder every day I try to do so. When I thought I found someone on the same boat, and how we had things click, they ended up avoiding me and it's such a bother.

 

[st2000]

I wish I had a partner like this! This sounds heavenly, and I would love to enjoy such an experience!

You'd be surprised how many men lie or even don't want to show cock pics/evidence. Especially prominent on dating apps and Reddit. I saw some people use a fake "big dick ruler" just to pass as massive and I hate it.

Like, I wish it was easier for me to find someone, but it becomes harder every day I try to do so. When I thought I found someone on the same boat, and how we had things click, they ended up avoiding me and it's such a bother.

ruler is not enough yes.
better to have hand around penis or compare the thumb lenth to thickness
but most of these guys forget that we can check that
anywya being too think they don't undertand it is an issue. thick men dream have gf who is size queen so being able to have sex . but when you meet a girl it is hard to ask her "are you a size queen?"

 

[Sandymat]

Being a size queen is no different in my mind to preferring, say for instance , brown eyes over green or a blond over a red head or vise versa. Having a preference doesn’t mean you dislike another person. People are allowed to like what they like .

 

[boc]

Being a size queen is no different in my mind to preferring, say for instance , brown eyes over green or a blond over a red head or vise versa. Having a preference doesn’t mean you dislike another person. People are allowed to like what they like .

Agreed.

 

[deleted1152699]

I think the difficulty is that you often can't pursue partners that meet your preference in the same way you can pursue partners that have more visible attributes. Also, attractiveness can often make up for, in some ways, "deficiencies". If you are attracted to someone's sense of humor, but indifferent to their, I don't know, muscle tone, you will likely stay in the relationship at some level. It's like a scale in our subconscious mind, tilting toward "fuck" or "not fuck" (or date/marry, etc...)

Because penis size is largely unknown from sight or first meeting, you are probably missing potential partners that fit that preference because the rest of their physical and personality traits tilt the scale away from attractive, in your mind.

 

[thick4me]

ruler is not enough yes.
better to have hand around penis or compare the thumb lenth to thickness
but most of these guys forget that we can check that
anywya being too think they don't undertand it is an issue. thick men dream have gf who is size queen so being able to have sex . but when you meet a girl it is hard to ask her "are you a size queen?"

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