Being a size Queen/King is hard.

[14600801]

Hey there, I am M/27 years old, and a Size queen. It is odd that a gay person is a size queen, especially considering "size doesn't matter" for most homosexual men, but this is not the case for me. I have a preference to bigger penises, especially those above 7 inches. I remember I tried discussion it before on a gay subreddit, and I was shamed to be a porn addict for this preference. Do other size queen's/king relate? How do you find your ideal hookups? I certainly don't have luck as most big dick owners seem to be straight, or female leaning to say the least, and when I thought I found the one, they are either unresponsive or ghost me.

Maybe I need to discuss this topic thoroughly with other like minded people, and hopefully I can understand myself better for being a size queen.

I think there are waaaay more gay men that actually prefer big dicks than women.

On the other side, as a guy with a big dick it is quite frustrating to realize that indeed size does not matter.

So, if you find a guy with a big tool that you like, he is going to love that you truly appreciatte his size as something special.

 

[Daveinseattle]

Hey there, I am M/27 years old, and a Size queen. It is odd that a gay person is a size queen, especially considering "size doesn't matter" for most homosexual men, but this is not the case for me. I have a preference to bigger penises, especially those above 7 inches. I remember I tried discussion it before on a gay subreddit, and I was shamed to be a porn addict for this preference. Do other size queen's/king relate? How do you find your ideal hookups? I certainly don't have luck as most big dick owners seem to be straight, or female leaning to say the least, and when I thought I found the one, they are either unresponsive or ghost me.

Maybe I need to discuss this topic thoroughly with other like minded people, and hopefully I can understand myself better for being a size queen.

I’m gay - mostly a bottom and I have a few very endowed friends I hook up with.
I like all guys - but I get what you’re talking about.

To each their own - you’re a good guy, enjoy your life

 

[halcyondays]

I have a preference to bigger penises, especially those above 7 inches.

Is this an exclusive preference for you? Do you only hook up with hung guys?

 

[Illbeg4BigCock]

Speaking only for myself--I only service very hung men. Big-cocked married men, bbc's a plenty, and so on.
I have a strict rule--if his dick is smaller than mine-I pass. This has resulted in a few uncomfortable situations where I had to ask a man to leave.

 

[MilfBanger78]

I dont really consider myself "bi", I'm only attracted to one part of a guy, and only if its big...so I guess I fit in the size king category lol. and yeah its difficult. I'm a good size but I get off on hooking up with guys way bigger.

As others have mentioned, BIG cocks (length AND girth) are extremely rare to begin with. You're talking like maybe 1-5% of the male population. Then on top of it, guys that are wanting to hookup with dudes, and match your type etc. Really narrows the options down.

 

[TheBiggestM]

I dont really consider myself "bi", I'm only attracted to one part of a guy, and only if its big...so I guess I fit in the size king category lol. and yeah its difficult. I'm a good size but I get off on hooking up with guys way bigger.

As others have mentioned, BIG cocks (length AND girth) are extremely rare to begin with. You're talking like maybe 1-5% of the male population. Then on top of it, guys that are wanting to hookup with dudes, and match your type etc. Really narrows the options down.

Milfbanger who's gay haha though yeah, it is a shame that only the top 5% are "hung" which makes it so much harder for me to find someone like that as well. I wish there were working growth hormones that do expand/helps the penis grow even more, but alas science did not stumble on that yet plus most penis expansion procedures are so damaging that most penis enlargement operations come with downsides. Which narrows currently the options to date hung men to the ones that were born with it. And to be fair, I wouldn't be even picky if men would have enlarged their penises if it was possible, just most average to small dicks don't give that same kind of excitement.

Like I can look at a big dick and cum multiple times just by looking and worshipping it, and when it's a average sized one it just does not give the same adrenaline kick unfortunately.

 

[Crex]

I'd say I'm a bit of a size queen, too. I've had the same partner for half my life, and he's got a big dick. Mine is big, but his is massive. We've tried having hookups before with other people and I'm always disappointed when I see what the other guys are working with. I grew up thinking dicks were bigger than they actually are, and that's been hard for me to shake. I lowkey kind of hate it, though, because it definitely limits options (and they're already limited enough being gay)

 

[lttle1]

For gay men, I think that one's own size makes a difference. I'm small and have a strong preference for bigger than average, which is complicated. First, small is less popular generally, let alone among hung men. Second, it feels hypocritical to expect what I can't offer. Fortunately for guys like me, there is a subset of hung gay men who don't care much about size or who like a small dick.

Unless I missed it, the op didn't mention his own size. It might help flesh out the problem, so to speak.

 

[ItalTony9]

I think it is wrong to shame people, but I think there is a distinction between shaming and criticizing, and I think it’s fair to criticize someone for placing so much importance on a body part. Because people can’t change that without extreme treatments or surgeries.

Imagine telling someone, “look, you’re a great person, but your skin color just isn’t doing it for me”. It’s like… that person has no control over their skin color. And it’s the same thing with size of body parts, as well.

There are people on these forums who call out people for their insecurity-based reactions, but it is TOTALLY reasonable to be insecure when people are literally telling you that you’re not good enough based on a factor largely outside your control.

great response...thank you

 

[TheBiggestM]

For gay men, I think that one's own size makes a difference. I'm small and have a strong preference for bigger than average, which is complicated. First, small is less popular generally, let alone among hung men. Second, it feels hypocritical to expect what I can't offer. Fortunately for guys like me, there is a subset of hung gay men who don't care much about size or who like a small dick.

Unless I missed it, the op didn't mention his own size. It might help flesh out the problem, so to speak.

I am below average, not necessarily small, but Defenitely not big either and I wish I could find some of these hung men who do not care for size or prefer smaller dicks, as I never have met any of those in nsfw places I am around in. On dating apps it's even worse as you can't just see what people are packing, and surprisingly everyone I was chatting with did not like my origin lol

 

[glennb]

I am below average, not necessarily small, but Defenitely not big either and I wish I could find some of these hung men who do not care for size or prefer smaller dicks, as I never have met any of those in nsfw places I am around in. On dating apps it's even worse as you can't just see what people are packing, and surprisingly everyone I was chatting with did not like my origin lol

I have decent size but I'm straight and married so it does me no good.

 

[cockboiii]

look the reason you get shamed is bc you size queens act terrible. I've literally had guys leave the bed after they saw my cock. That isn't cool. If you're going to come over and hook up then don't fucking leave once you see a dick that isn't 55 inches. Most aren't that size and the reason you get mocked and laughed at is because you tend to act in a very disrespectful way to guys with smaller dicks. You act like having a small dick is a dissease or something. I really have no problem with size queens getting the reputation they deserve. They don't deserve a lot of respect from how they've treated me and other smaller guys.

 

[cockboiii]

and to be honest I haven't found big dicks to be rare at all. Every guy i've dated has been over 7. I'm also extremely good looking and tall so maybe there is something to be said for bigger cocks being attached to better looking guys?

 

[Almost40]

Its bad not to follow your instincts
At 7 inches my cock is quite suitable for many bottoms and cocksuckers. Nothing wrong with those who focus on bigger dick size and nothing wrong with those who pay too much attention on skin condition and looks. If this is what they look for then why fight it.... Not all folks are the same, there are many guys who have no problem with a regular looking partner or a medium sized cock, or a chubby dude etc. Just make sure u don't hook up with the wrong guys.

 

[cockboiii]

For gay men, I think that one's own size makes a difference. I'm small and have a strong preference for bigger than average, which is complicated. First, small is less popular generally, let alone among hung men. Second, it feels hypocritical to expect what I can't offer. Fortunately for guys like me, there is a subset of hung gay men who don't care much about size or who like a small dick.

Unless I missed it, the op didn't mention his own size. It might help flesh out the problem, so to speak.

TBH I'm guessing you're a lonely old man. You deserve what you get man and no the older you get you're not going to get hot hung young guys unless you pay for it. But in life we get what we seek.

 

[cockboiii]

Speaking only for myself--I only service very hung men. Big-cocked married men, bbc's a plenty, and so on.
I have a strict rule--if his dick is smaller than mine-I pass. This has resulted in a few uncomfortable situations where I had to ask a man to leave.

Man i feel sorry for you. Must be a lonely life. think what your family would think if they knew this. Sad.

 

[JonahEss]

I have decent size but I'm straight and married so it does me no good.

I'm big & divorced

 

[Evenflow618]

I'm big &

I'm big & divorced

These days everybody are divorced

 

[Andrej_u]

I am on the bigger side, and it's a huge privilege (no pun intended!).
I have to say that I find it very unattractive when someone is a size queen. The worst ones are those who create a new profile on Grindr and text everyone asking "Hi, big dick?", just to scan everyone, and only talk to guys who have a big one. No thanks.

I see my dick as a nice plus, and if I'm hooking up, I show it only after I've created a bit of connection and seen that the other guy finds me hot regardless of the size. Again, when I say it's a privilege, I mean that I've never experienced being rejected after showing my nudes. And it's a privilege because I was born with it, I didn't have to work out to earn a bigger dick by training, for example.

There are many bigger-sized men who love being worshipped for it, and they get turned off or offended when you tell them you don't care about their size. They're probably the best match for size queens Nothing wrong in being "objectified" for the dick, but it's just not my cup of tea.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Hey there, I am M/27 years old, and a Size queen. It is odd that a gay person is a size queen, especially considering "size doesn't matter" for most homosexual men, but this is not the case for me. I have a preference to bigger penises, especially those above 7 inches. I remember I tried discussion it before on a gay subreddit, and I was shamed to be a porn addict for this preference. Do other size queen's/king relate? How do you find your ideal hookups? I certainly don't have luck as most big dick owners seem to be straight, or female leaning to say the least, and when I thought I found the one, they are either unresponsive or ghost me.

Maybe I need to discuss this topic thoroughly with other like minded people, and hopefully I can understand myself better for being a size queen.

I've been a size queen for literally all of my sex life, including before having sex for the first time and I've never even considered feeling shame because, without publicly telling a private story, I've always been just used to guys with at least above average cocks. The guys in those comments only shamed you bc they're small and insecure.

Tbh, I disagree about straight guys having the biggest cocks because even if they're just bi, I've seen some absolutely massive cocks. Most of my sex life revolved around a circle of guys I knew who all had at least above average cocks, but honestly I don’t have a problem finding guys with big cocks even now because they're usually very open about it on dating/sex apps. There's A LOT of guys with big cocks on the gay dating scene, just keep looking lol