Being a submissive feminine bottom.

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Im interested to hear from other bi guys who bottom here?

Do you find yourselves being feminine, submissive when you are bottoming with your top partner/fuckbuddy?

For me one of the great pleasures that I have during MM sex, is undertaking a very feminine/female submissive role with my fuckbuddy. Totally surrendering my body for his pleasure and being subservient to his needs and desires. As my fuckbuddy is a very larger, much older Dominant Alpha Bi Top, it makes submitting to him, such an enjoyable experience for both of us. I find the role playing makes me extremely horny and allows me to focus all my energy and time into pleasing him and getting him over the line. Even outside of sex, I take up the female role just to please him and show my appreciation and gratitude for him pleasing me.
 

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I enjoy the submissive part of being fucked by a better endowed guy especially when a woman is there to see it. I like to lay on my back so I can see my tiny penis jiggle about and the other guys much more manly member fucking me as well as occasionlly pressing his cock against mine so it kind of feels like I have a clit not a penis. I once wore panties to give more of an illusion that I was the feminine one ( my girlfriend's idea and she actually bought some that would fit me)
 

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Sometimes I feel really fem when bottoming. I dont normally cross dress but by request I have worn skirts with nylons and garters, with one married fuck buddy I used to put on his wife's dress. I do enjoy it when I am bottoming.
 
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Sometimes I feel really fem when bottoming. I dont normally cross dress but by request I have worn skirts with nylons and garters, with one married fuck buddy I used to put on his wife's dress. I do enjoy it when I am bottoming.
Im definitely a lot more expressive and feminine the moment my fuckbuddy takes me from behind anally I think its so natural to feel this way. That feminine side of me comes out when I start moaning and groaning uncontrollably. Its an incredibly sexual feeling to experience.

Definitely dressing the part, really enhances that feminine nature. I like it, but only do so when he requests it for something different. I think its a lot of fun and role playing and it makes the sex so much more enjoyable between us.
 

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Im definitely a lot more expressive and feminine the moment my fuckbuddy takes me from behind anally I think its so natural to feel this way. That feminine side of me comes out when I start moaning and groaning uncontrollably. Its an incredibly sexual feeling to experience.

Definitely dressing the part, really enhances that feminine nature. I like it, but only do so when he requests it for something different. I think its a lot of fun and role playing and it makes the sex so much more enjoyable between us.
For feeling Fem I think missionary with him on top thrusting into me, kissing me, moaning in my ear makes me the most fem especially when he collapses after filling my with his seed and we start to make out with his cock still inside me.
 

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For feeling Fem I think missionary with him on top thrusting into me, kissing me, moaning in my ear makes me the most fem especially when he collapses after filling my with his seed and we start to make out with his cock still inside me.
Most definitely missionary position for anal sex for me at least, brings out my feminine nature. Fortunate I am petite, slim and importantly flexible. So not only can he easily spread my legs to behind my head, but by being in this position and on top of me, he can while his dick is deep inside me is easily do whatever he pleases, whether to kiss me, give me a love bite on my neck or suck my nipples. All of which just amplifies feeling feminine and importantly makes him feel strong, masculine and in control. This just helps us to get to our shared goal, of him cumming deep inside me.
 
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When I am getting fucked missionary-it’s more of my man making love to me. We lock eyes and, also being flexible, I’ll have my legs pinned back. When we are doing it doggy it’s also hot but not that same emotional connection. Am I making any sense?
I enjoy doggy style more, I sometimes go woof woof to him when Im in the mood to be fucked in that position. Its dirty and carnal.

He like yourself said the same thing about missionary, he loves seeing my eyes roll back and the pleasure he is giving me and how embarrassed and humiliated I feel, which I love, with my legs pinned behind my head. I dont fake, I never could fake so he knows every moan and groan I give is because of his fucking technique. Thats the best compliment I can give him. When he is inside me, I whimper and beg him to not stop. When youre looking directly into a fuckbuddy's eyes intimately feeling that way, its really a beautiful experience.
 

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I enjoy doggy style more, I sometimes go woof woof to him when Im in the mood to be fucked in that position. Its dirty and carnal.

He like yourself said the same thing about missionary, he loves seeing my eyes roll back and the pleasure he is giving me and how embarrassed and humiliated I feel, which I love, with my legs pinned behind my head. I dont fake, I never could fake so he knows every moan and groan I give is because of his fucking technique. Thats the best compliment I can give him. When he is inside me, I whimper and beg him to not stop. When youre looking directly into a fuckbuddy's eyes intimately feeling that way, its really a beautiful experience.
Yep you are being made love to.
 
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Most definitely missionary position for anal sex for me at least, brings out my feminine nature. Fortunate I am petite, slim and importantly flexible. So not only can he easily spread my legs to behind my head, but by being in this position and on top of me, he can while his dick is deep inside me is easily do whatever he pleases, whether to kiss me, give me a love bite on my neck or suck my nipples. All of which just amplifies feeling feminine and importantly makes him feel strong, masculine and in control. This just helps us to get to our shared goal, of him cumming deep inside me.
Wrap your legs around him and pull him deeper and deeper inside you.
 
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Yep you are being made love to.
I know I have said we engage in mainly humilation sex.

However there are times when he definitely makes love to me. Its not common, but the sex is totally different. He is very gentle, affectionate and passionate with his kisses. There is no warning really of what kind of sex I will get from him.

A tell tale sign if its purely just a love making session, is the way he kisses when we first hookup. If its a tender long kiss, then I know whats in store for me. Interestingly it is during these times, he cares about my orgasm and me cumming. There is a lot oral sex and in particular he loves to lick and place his toungue deep inside my hole. We engage in a lot more 69 position as well. The anal sex, is also a lot more careful, gentle and slower pace. He likes to enjoy and savour the moment. There is no aggressiveness or pain during this kind of sex.

Post orgasm is interesting, during humilation sex, we are both drained, exhausted and tired. However after a "love making" hookup, he will continue to kiss, embrace and fondle me well after he has cummed. I will usually also end up sleeping on top of him as well.

I actually do like it, but prefer the humilation sex. The love making sessions though offer a point of difference and something different, so I really get to appreciate the contrasting styles of MM sex.
 
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I know I have said we engage in mainly humilation sex.

However there are times when he definitely makes love to me. Its not common, but the sex is totally different. He is very gentle, affectionate and passionate with his kisses. There is no warning really of what kind of sex I will get from him.

A tell tale sign if its purely just a love making session, is the way he kisses when we first hookup. If its a tender long kiss, then I know whats in store for me. Interestingly it is during these times, he cares about my orgasm and me cumming. There is a lot oral sex and in particular he loves to lick and place his toungue deep inside my hole. We engage in a lot more 69 position as well. The anal sex, is also a lot more careful, gentle and slower pace. He likes to enjoy and savour the moment. There is no aggressiveness or pain during this kind of sex.

Post orgasm is interesting, during humilation sex, we are both drained, exhausted and tired. However after a "love making" hookup, he will continue to kiss, embrace and fondle me well after he has cummed. I will usually also end up sleeping on top of him as well.

I actually do like it, but prefer the humilation sex. The love making sessions though offer a point of difference and something different, so I really get to appreciate the contrasting styles of MM sex.
I’d like to know some of what you say to your FB in these sessions. I bet it’s insanely hot and I could learn a line or two for my own experience.
 
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I’d like to know some of what you say to your FB in these sessions. I bet it’s insanely hot and I could learn a line or two for my own experience.
I actually dont say much at all, Im very obedient and submissive, so I let my fuckbuddy control me and our time together. I moan and groan a lot like a bitch lol. I get very shy and embarrassed post sex as I feel very weak and subservient that a man could do that to me, he loves it and I love that he does as well.

To be honest its so much easier to just surrender and be told what and how to do things. Being his kind of sex slave/outlet comes very naturally to me, he is very phsyically intimidating as well so that just amplifies the excitement. The scary thing is that he is too much bigger and stronger than me, if he wanted to force himself inside me without my consent, there is absolutely nothing I could do. So when I tell him "No" and "Stop" it only gets him hornier. Yes we do have a "safe word". lol.
 

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You’ve said you find a lot of pleasure in the humiliation and embarrassment of submitting to a strong man. For you-what do you find more humiliating-down on your knees taking a man’s cock in your mouth or bent over with his bare cock up your ass? For me it’s the latter.
 
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You’ve said you find a lot of pleasure in the humiliation and embarrassment of submitting to a strong man. For you-what do you find more humiliating-down on your knees taking a man’s cock in your mouth or bent over with his bare cock up your ass? For me it’s the latter.
Thats a good question as both have a level of humiliation associated with it.

Being naked on my knees, looking into my fuckbuddy's eyes while I blow him, with him standing over me, is really him demonstrating his absolute power, control and strength over me. When he takes me from behind, doggy style, the thought that I allowed another man to overcome me and force his way into me for his sexual gratification, definitely gives me a lovely feeling of being weak, submissive and feminine.

If I had to pick one which is the most humiliating, its anal, doggy style. In this position, he owns my arse and is only concerned about pleasing himself by using me as a sexual outlet.
 
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