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Three men with whom I was romantically or sexually involved have tried to fight to defend me. I think quickly and act decisively, so only one was able to follow through. I prevented the other two. The one I couldn't stop was successfully stopped twice. He ended up having to pull me away from an altercation instead on one of those occasions, but I think I saved the other guy's life both of those times. He had touched me sexually when I had explicitly said not to, and the man I was with seemed ready to kill him.

The two times he did fight, were weird. The first time, I was alone in a dark cabana while dude went inside to use the restroom. Some guy came outside, having walked past the actual rest room, entered my cabana, and started peeing next to me. I'm not sure he knew I was there. My dude came out, beat his ass, rubbed his face in his pee and called him a "Bad Drunk!" scolding him like a wayward puppy. I ran inside to get the manager. He told the drunk guy to clean up his mess. Gave him a hose and some pine sol.

The other time, we were at the rooftop pool of a sex club, and someone photographed me knowing I did not wish to be photographed and that it was against the rules to even have a cell phone on the roof. Dude dangled him off the roof. Told he was going to leave, and that he could walk down the stairs and never come back, or take a short cut over the side. He allowed me to take the SD card and throw the man's phone off the roof. Destroying his phone was very satisfying.

Last year I was out with a dude and some guy tried to kick it to me while Dude was at the bar. I declined, of course, telling him I was on a date. Later, he came by and threw beer bottles at us. I felt Dude's energy change, and kept trying to keep him out of trouble, but he just gently peeled my hands off him. But before he could fight that guy, I found a security guard and had the other guy kicked out of the place.

An ex seemed like he wanted to fight some guy I was befriending to do karaoke with. I declared that we were now too drunk and I put us in a cab and went home.

Most of my stories about dudes getting violent involve intoxication. Sober people have way more chill.
 

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I abhor violence. It’s occurred around me and whether or not it was to “defend me” or not, it was stupid and pointless. Walk away. I lose complete respect for any man who has to resort to violence to settle a dispute. The only exception being if he’s blindsided by a punch and he’s defending himself. But defending me? Unless I’m being physically assaulted, we can walk away.
 

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I abhor violence. It’s occurred around me and whether or not it was to “defend me” or not, it was stupid and pointless. Walk away. I lose complete respect for any man who has to resort to violence to settle a dispute. The only exception being if he’s blindsided by a punch and he’s defending himself. But defending me? Unless I’m being physically assaulted, we can walk away.
I was talking for being physically assaulted of course
 
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Before my wife and I were married, years ago, her psycho ex and his two shitwaffle brothers drove down from Kentucky, despite the fact that they were divorced.

He had the philosophy "once a woman is mine no other man can have her." Despite the fact that I regard her as neither a possession nor a trophy, but a person and my better half, I think you can see where this is going.

They found our place and followed us home in their car. We went inside and she locked the door, turning off the lights and wanting me to call the police. Instead, I charged out the front door and ran down the sidewalk towards where their car was idling and those gutless yellow turds hit the accelerator and peeled out of the parking lot and never returned again. I was disappointed; I really wanted to give them a warm welcome!
 

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It's weird because I have an inkling my wife has a small part of her that loves the idea of me throwing hands in her defense, and has once questioned my willingness to do so, as readily as her abusive exes have done so in the past..but I tend to squash any confrontation before it goes physical...The one time I threatened actual violence involved some irresponsible dog owners that let their giant beasts out of their yard where they threatened to maul my then 7months pregnant wife, if not for our dog she was walking at the time...our dog chased theirs back to their home where I confronted the owners and threatened their dogs with barehanded death if they were to get loose like that again, and a backhand to the owners if they had anything to say about it...
 
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If i started this thread, it is because it happened to me several times.
I'm non violent, and tend to walk away when it is verbal assault. Therefore somtimes you have no choice.

This is the way i met my first gf when i was 22 at university.
Christine was 19 y.o. very shy, quite lonely. Often bullied. Her look, totally hid the fact she was really pretty. ((Glasses, old fashionned hair bun, baggy clothes to hide her very skinny body with very large boobs)). And she was exclusively focused on her studies

That evening two teenage girls(like 15 or 16) were bullying her, nearby the campus. They had dropped her school bag on the ground, they were mocking her, shaking her.
I saw thay scene and come to there. I told the girls to leave her quiet.
One of the teenage girls came face to me and gave me a handpush on my chest. That made me stepped back losing the balance and i fell back.
I got very angry, boiling blood. I stood up and rushed to her. I pushed her back. That made her make one pace back. I tried to send her a hook punch to her face, but before i could connect, she swung her forearm and she backhanded a slap across my face. That slap beatdown me on the ground, quite harshly as i got deeply in daze, unable to get up for a little moment.
Both girls went on to bully Christine maybe one more minute and left.
When i recovered enough to get up Christine ran to me and we hugged.
She thanked me for having taken her defence and told me it was the first time a man fought for her.
3 days after we had our first relation, therefore rather clumsy, ad we were both virgin
 
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I'm really hoping something got lost in translation. Glasses, wearing your hair in a bun, etc = being attractive is hidden?

I get standing up to bullies, abusers etc, but uh, this doesn't seem like the ideal place (an adult site that tends to frown on discussing anything that happened before 18 or anyone being younger than 18) to talk about you as a 22 year old shoving/laying hands on minors.