Being a voyeur vs having sex

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I have found that increasingly I would rather watch others have sex as opposed to having sex. Even when I see attractive women, I think more about what it would be like to watch them having sex than to think about having sex with them.

I have always been like this when masturbating, even when I was younger. But now I am quite sure that I could be perfectly happy just watching others. Maybe it’s from watching a lot of porn.
 

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I have found that increasingly I would rather watch others have sex as opposed to having sex. Even when I see attractive women, I think more about what it would be like to watch them having sex than to think about having sex with them.

I have always been like this when masturbating, even when I was younger. But now I am quite sure that I could be perfectly happy just watching others. Maybe it’s from watching a lot of porn.
We're all voyeurs when we watch porn or attend a live sex show; But if you're into serious group action like the MMFs my gf buddy join me for, voyeurism is also part of the fun. It's never just 3-way fucking. I love watching my gf get fucked by my buddy or doing him with a strap-on, and she gets offf watching me and my buddy working each other over. To a lot of us it's all legit
 

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I have found that increasingly I would rather watch others have sex as opposed to having sex. Even when I see attractive women, I think more about what it would be like to watch them having sex than to think about having sex with them.

I have always been like this when masturbating, even when I was younger. But now I am quite sure that I could be perfectly happy just watching others. Maybe it’s from watching a lot of porn.
I have a SPH fetish and a tiny penis. I totally get off on watching better endowed guys fuck my girlfriend. I also view a fair amount of porn on that theme.
 

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I meant to ask but failed to do so: Does anyone else feel the same?
Thanks!
I do, I think at this point I’d enjoy watching another guy fuck my wife more than I’d enjoy doing it myself and trust me, that’s saying something.
 

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Never thought I would get off on such a thing but I have watched several of my gfs being fucked by better endowed guys and I have to confess I now enjoy it more than actually fucking them myself. This is partly due to the fact I cum very quickly when actually fucking but can last a long time when wanking and this is enhanced by my SPH kick.
 

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I have a SPH fetish and a tiny penis. I totally get off on watching better endowed guys fuck my girlfriend. I also view a fair amount of porn on that theme.
You are very lucky!! I would love to watch my wife with other men!
 
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I do, I think at this point I’d enjoy watching another guy fuck my wife more than I’d enjoy doing it myself and trust me, that’s saying something.
Ha, so you say. I did watch my wife, now ex, being fucked by another guy as I was being fucked by a guy who followed the same rhythm, now that was something
 

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Easy answer once you are older. I would rather watch my wife getting it good from a better bigger cock. I still have the memories of seeing that live so long ago.
As far as watching other women get fucked no, I’d rather fuck them.
 

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I love both thats why I so enjoy MMF 3somes. its the best of both.

If i were married long term, I'd get off lot more on watching my wife take a huge young dick. I have a 52 yr old friend with benefits, her and I have made it a mission to seduce an 18yr old lawn or pool boy lol.
 
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I have found that increasingly I would rather watch others have sex as opposed to having sex. Even when I see attractive women, I think more about what it would be like to watch them having sex than to think about having sex with them.

I have always been like this when masturbating, even when I was younger. But now I am quite sure that I could be perfectly happy just watching others. Maybe it’s from watching a lot of porn.
nice! i'm exactly the same. i'd rather watch 2 girls having sex with each other while i masturbate or cum in a rubber pussy
 
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Maybe I just haven't found the right girl yet, or maybe I need to focus on my own pleasure for a change, but yes, I prefer watching over performing. I actually have to put in effort when fucking the female half of two of the couples I've played with, and I get nervous over whether he's enjoying the show and if I'm going too far or not (one couple didn't like it when I kissed her body).

But when I'm watching, I can just sit back, relax, jerk off, and maybe get up and lick her feet. If they are putting on a good show, then watching becomes more arousing and enjoyable then actual coitus.
 

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I love going to a bath house and watching guys show themselves and jack off. Went a month or two ago with my boyfriend and loved seeing him show his off. He was too shy to touch others or to let others touch him but I would have loved to have seen it. I would have love to sit back and watch him be sucked dry.
 

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I do, I think at this point I’d enjoy watching another guy fuck my wife more than I’d enjoy doing it myself and trust me, that’s saying something.
I feel the same way about my wife
 

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Easy answer once you are older. I would rather watch my wife getting it good from a better bigger cock. I still have the memories of seeing that live so long ago.
As far as watching other women get fucked no, I’d rather fuck them.
Indeed
 
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There are a handful of raunchy strip clubs where I live. Lots of fucking going on in the VIP lounges. People are rarely discrete about it. I think they enjoy showing off. I love to go in and watch a girl riding a guy's cock out of the corner of my eye, or giving him a blowjob. Of course, I am getting some action of my own, but I think I enjoy the voyeurism more than the direct participation.
 
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Doing isn't the same as watching. At all. I'm not watching myself when I have sex. I'm body to body with someone.

I like both but spend more time watching. It would be exhausting to have sex as long as I spend watching it. :cool:
 
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This may be straying a little bit off topic, but another thing I like to do is pull my cock out in an adult movie theatre and slowly stroke it. Other guys are doing the same thing. We are all watching the movie, but we are also watching each other. Guys will jerk each other off and sometimes one will blow another. I have yet to see a woman take part, but I am always hopeful.
 
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I also would like to watch my wife being fucked by another man who's cock is bigger than mine (not a hard thing to accomplish!) rather than fucking her myself. She would never go for it of course...but I can dream...and fantasize!
 
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