Being accused of Arrogance or being on your high horse because of your blessing /popularity

[Undisputed89]

This is only for men who either have a big dick and have displayed it to the public and received huge attention from it or men and women whose experienced men close to them that have displayed this. An example would be a friend of yours or your partner. This is to get perspective that most people on the outside might not understand that could lead to an arrogant or high horse mind set in this sexual and physical realm. The question I have is have you displayed arrogance or caught yourself being on your high horse because of your size when dealing with attention in sexual spaces? How did it unravel for you? What did it do to your ego, confidence or mindset? what is something you wish people can experience to understand you're not being an ass lol.

 

[deleted757128]

My bf accuses me of being a show off and attention dealer when we go to bathhouses cos I just sit down and jerk off my cock til someone hot decides to take over

 

[Undisputed89]

My bf accuses me of being a show off and attention dealer when we go to bathhouses cos I just sit down and jerk off my cock til someone hot decides to take over

What experience gave you the confidence that you know you can just do that which maybe your boyfriend doesn't understand?

 

[deleted757128]

What experience gave you the confidence that you know you can just do that which maybe your boyfriend doesn't understand?

Going to bathhouses he is also hung and does the same thing, but is a bit less brazen about it

 

[Undisputed89]

Going to bathhouses he is also hung and does the same thing, but is a bit less brazen about it

Ahhh that's interesting. So you are seen more as arrogant and he's seen more as humble. Or confidence vs timid?

 

[TragicWhiteKnight]

Obviously, it can be a bit hypnotic to get attention at a sex party, or doing nude modelling, but I don't think it needs to impact your personality outside of those environments. It's always a bit of a fantasy space, so it's not difficult for me to separate being dominant there and more humble outside of it.

 

[Sherwood D. Likelym]

Being Accused Of Arrogance is a tough topic for me to acknowledge. I crave attention for the sake of being accepted. While attempting to remain modest, I can't satisfy my narcissisms. Exposing my penis for admiration perpetuates my exhibitionism.​

 

[Undisputed89]

Being Accused Of Arrogance is a tough topic for me to acknowledge. I crave attention for the sake of being accepted. While attempting to remain modest, I can't satisfy my narcissisms. Exposing my penis for admiration perpetuates my exhibitionism.​

That made me laugh when I read that haha

 

[Undisputed89]

Obviously, it can be a bit hypnotic to get attention at a sex party, or doing nude modelling, but I don't think it needs to impact your personality outside of those environments. It's always a bit of a fantasy space, so it's not difficult for me to separate being dominant there and more humble outside of it.

I can see what your saying.

 

[rope9839]

I've been accused of being arrogant or egotistical because of my cock by enough women that there is probably something to it.

 

[Undisputed89]

I've been accused of being arrogant or egotistical because of my cock by enough women that there is probably something to it.

What area do you display it? And what is your thought process that you go about that gives women the thought that you're being arrogant?

 

[LilJock]

I'm sure I come off to many as being arrogant, but not for the size of my penis. I'm hung like a chipmunk. No, my narcissism springs from my looks and muscular build. If it weren't for my small dick, I'd be a total asshole.

 

[bvr07]

All of the guys that I’ve slept with have a smaller dick than mine. A couple of them even acknowledged that and complimented me for that. Others, the cocky ones, showed frustration joy: lol).
It hasn’t had a positive effect on either my ego or self esteem because I’m a bottom. lol

 

[Evenflow618]

My gf always gets mad that I show it off our balcony. She thinks I am full of myself but I just love to show it off especially when I shave down there

 

[BigPosersBulge]

I took a screenshot of that because because it was kind of funny,
For those who cannot read German:

"Dude, if you did not had such a cock, I would never write to you when it comes to the "look"."
"You are ugly"

 

[Undisputed89]

I've noticed that white guys with big dicks are more humble than black guys with big dicks. Particularly the heterosexual ones. Does anyone agree or think that's a reach?

 

[deleted22029871]

I’m blessed with size and I find it very funny when people see me out because the usual response is shock cos I’m white

 

[Undisputed89]

I’m blessed with size and I find it very funny when people see me out because the usual response is shock cos I’m white

There are more white big dicks than black ones. Obviously because you have more whites than black. And white men don't get talked about enough about having big dicks. Im glad the Internet is changing that narrative. And I'm a black guy. A black man with a big dick it's a over inflated ego.