Being an exclusive bottom

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Just a thought I had today, is it natural to be an exclusive bottom?

No,this is not a post to inflame people, but part of male psychology (especially sexually) is to pound:biggrin1: Whether straight or gay, a man per his sexual role gets the urge to penetrate. the whole purpose of penises is to penetrate.

but if somebody is an exclusive bottom, then his penis is not being used to fuck. is it then a waste of cock usage?
 
Just a thought I had today, is it natural to be an exclusive bottom?

No,this is not a post to inflame people, but part of male psychology (especially sexually) is to pound:biggrin1: Whether straight or gay, a man per his sexual role gets the urge to penetrate. the whole purpose of penises is to penetrate.

but if somebody is an exclusive bottom, then his penis is not being used to fuck. is it then a waste of cock usage?

depends on its size. I have seen some guys that have 4'' hard dicks and it always seems a waste to me. can they really make a woman happy with that? and dont try to fuck me with one that small...no pleasure there.
 
im a 100% bottom and i love it! i would never have the urge to fuck a man only to be fucked, i would have sex with a women tho
 
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Not an 'exclusive' bottom but 90 percent of the time tho. Some guys simply can't 'get it up' so are bottoms because of necessity. I like both. Especially when I bottom I like riding on top with the fucker face-up laying on his back, so I can be K-Y Cowboy.
 
I'm a 100% bottom with guys, buy am 100% normal and masculine/aggressive when with a woman. I can also play the bottom with a woman, but am happy with anything she likes. When I am with a guy, either sucking his cock or taking it up my ass, I am in HEAVEN and want it to never stop.


Figure that one out.... LOL
 
I'm a 100% bottom with guys, buy am 100% normal and masculine/aggressive when with a woman. I can also play the bottom with a woman, but am happy with anything she likes. When I am with a guy, either sucking his cock or taking it up my ass, I am in HEAVEN and want it to never stop.


Figure that one out.... LOL

Same here.
 
Just a thought I had today, is it natural to be an exclusive bottom?

No,this is not a post to inflame people, but part of male psychology (especially sexually) is to pound:biggrin1: Whether straight or gay, a man per his sexual role gets the urge to penetrate. the whole purpose of penises is to penetrate.

but if somebody is an exclusive bottom, then his penis is not being used to fuck. is it then a waste of cock usage?

I big cock is a great handle to flip a guy over with.
 
When I first started sexing it up with guys I tried everything. In a pretty short period of time I went with what I really liked doing and that's being 100% totally bottom. Have been ever since and I don't think my pecker is being wasted. I have lots of fun with it.
 
I've never had the urge to penetrate! I've tried but as I'm starting to push in, I just go completely soft because it's something that doesn't turn me on. And since I'm soft, I really can't top, can I?
 
but if somebody is an exclusive bottom, then his penis is not being used to fuck. is it then a waste of cock usage?

Absolutely not. One of the great things about gay sex is that you get to free yourself from the idea that your dick has to penetrate someone to be useful.

That being said, I also don't get it why a guy would want to be only a bottom - sounds like missing out on a lot of fun to me - but life's too short for me to get wound up in knots over it.
 
My ex is a total bottom. He said there were certain relationships where he was the top, but now he prefers being bottom 100% of the time. He said it has always been difficult to stay hard when being the top, but he has no problem staying hard when he's getting fucked. As for myself, I could never been the bottom all the time. A few times a year is good enough for me. I would rather give it than get it.
 
The subject of control hasn't come up, but it should be noted that the balance of power is as likely to be with the bottom as with the top.