Being big or going balls deep?

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Here's an example of a guy that's just too big to go "Balls deep":

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He has no problems obviously filling her up to the bottom, but the frustration (assumed on my part) of not being able to "ram it home" seems to diminish the passion. It's almost like once he touches the end of her vagina with the tip of his cock, he needs to yank it back in mid-stroke.

Ok, granted, this is porn, passiosn isn't mandatory.
 

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Here's an example of a guy that's just too big to go "Balls deep":

IMHO, there's no "too big" IRL - there can be a lack of passion or the guy going deep too fast... But "too big" - hardly...

Ok, granted, this is porn, passiosn isn't mandatory.

:biggrin1: You answered it yourself - it's porn. There's apparently a huge market for "too big" in porn. :cool:
 

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Balls deep with pure pleasure is better than being afraid of being hurt if he's not careful. I like taking it all in and feeling his pelvis against my labia and clitoris with every thrust. I can simulate that feeling and safety with certain positions, but a too big dick is limiting since many positions are right off the table without help of devices to limit his depth (which I've only read about and heard about but haven't experienced personally). I definitely prefer thickness over length since I seem to be able to take any thickness with enough foreplay, but no amount of horniness can make my vagina longer.
 
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Eh, strange...

Usually the vagina can increase quite a bit in length - sure you didn't miss a class in sex ed. ;)

I'm only going by my personal experience. It doesn't seem to be significantly better than the first time. I thought that I could take more of him in me than before, but after sex last night, I'm not so sure.
 

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I love love love it deep but when it gets to the point that the pain overrides the pleasure then my vote goes to smaller cock and a harder fuck.

Haha I agree.


I don't get to extreme deep stretching but my wife loves the full feeling of girth/volume and my ability to maintain harder pounding when she's letting go and needs it. She can't come from slower sex so building up to pounding and stamina is key for her.

I'm like the opposite, I have trouble coming when fucked too fast LOL. But then again, some people like the guy I was with wouldn't really build up to it, it was pounding from minute 1. So that was probably the problem, you do need some time to get used :smile:


It has always been thickness over length

I guess this is going to sound weird but I don't like super girthy dicks. I mean, a decent amount of thickness is alright but when it gets above average it becomes somewhat uncomfortable for me. Maybe I just haven't been with the right person.


Eh, strange...

Usually the vagina can increase quite a bit in length - sure you didn't miss a class in sex ed. ;)

You're right, it does become longer with arousal (same as a dick growing with arousal) but there is still a limit to how long it will get. Some women will end up with more length than others just from physical variation.

I find that I must have a short vagina when my ex used to cause problems to my cervix while being only around 7 inches. He was also very rough and actually had no technique whatsoever. Ironically, he would continually accuse girls of being bad in bed, I think that was probably him projecting :rolleyes: LOL
 

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it's a size pref thread. had it been made today it would be merged with the size pref sticky.

It is, but it's not quite a generic question. I often fantasize my wife not taking me all the way in, but this thread sometimes throws some cold water in that fantasy, which I find useful.

i feel like hitting you on the nose with a rolled up newspaper!

Trying to turn me on? :biggrin1:
 

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Balls deep with pure pleasure is better than being afraid of being hurt if he's not careful. I like taking it all in and feeling his pelvis against my labia and clitoris with every thrust. I can simulate that feeling and safety with certain positions, but a too big dick is limiting since many positions are right off the table without help of devices to limit his depth (which I've only read about and heard about but haven't experienced personally). I definitely prefer thickness over length since I seem to be able to take any thickness with enough foreplay, but no amount of horniness can make my vagina longer.

This is sad but true for us longer guys. I'm not asking to start a pity party, but you do have to be careful with bottoming out in a really petite vagina.

THAT SAID, I have done my fair share of pounding and can attest that once you do know how to control it, a lady can have her cake and eat it too. So to speak. Control is of the utmost importance. I suppose then the real issue starts to be about lack of control. Is that something you desire in sex? I know I do sometimes.
 

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I've noticed that my gf and previous sexual partners all started sex essentially the same way, easing me in slowly and changing positions for about 30-45 minutes, then after they're lubed up a bit and have acclimated their muscles to accommodate my size, the real hard, deep fucking can begin. Just have to have patience. Granted, I still can't fit every inch, but with time and proper preparation its amazing how much they fit:)
 

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I've noticed that my gf and previous sexual partners all started sex essentially the same way, easing me in slowly and changing positions for about 30-45 minutes, then after they're lubed up a bit and have acclimated their muscles to accommodate my size, the real hard, deep fucking can begin. Just have to have patience. Granted, I still can't fit every inch, but with time and proper preparation its amazing how much they fit:)

Ya def! How big r u?