This isn't really penis involved, but I was just wondering ladies take on a guy being blunt when approaching you. i dont mean sexually. If a guy approached you, who said something like "hi, I think you are very pretty, and would like to get to know you better" type of thing. Is that too blunt? specifically, my situation, across the street from where I work there is a girl. I see her often, and sometimes we have some small talk, but nothing beyond that. I've been trying to think of a way to ask her on a date, but usually it's busy and I can never talk more than a few minutes. I was thinking of something like "I think you are very pretty, and I've been trying to talk with you a bit more, but haven't had such luck. I was wondering if you wanted to get a coffee (whenever)?" would that be too blunt?