Big Dreamer
Experimental Member
Nominates MZ for "Font of the Week" with her EVER! from above.
Seriously though.... good point. I have two children in school, and I see a ton of lazy-assed parents that drop their munchkins off and leave, assuming that being a chauffeur is sufficient involvement in their childs life. Grow a clue, people. You need to know who your kids friends are, who they feel uncomfortable around, which teachers they like and dislike, and most importanly, the reasons WHY they like, dislike, or fear these people. If you never establish a baseline understanding of your child, you most likely won't even know that they're being bullied, as the 5 minute car ride to school didn't offer any clues.
Having stayed in the town I was raised in I've got to see the adult version of both the bullies and the bullied. Don't try to sell me on any bullshit about a little bullying 'toughening a kid up', as it doesn't hold water in my town. Many of the people I know that was either ridiculed or physically abused by other children (or adults) seem to fit into one of two categories:
1) They seem meek in both their professional and personal lives.
2) They're assholes to their kids and subordinates, as revenge must taste sweet for them.
Either way, they would have been happier and more complete people if they had never been exposed to this unneccessary bullshit as kids.
If you're too damn lazy to raise your kids in a safe and productive environment, then buy a box of condoms, skip the kids, and save the rest of us the trouble of caring when you clearly don't.
Seriously though.... good point. I have two children in school, and I see a ton of lazy-assed parents that drop their munchkins off and leave, assuming that being a chauffeur is sufficient involvement in their childs life. Grow a clue, people. You need to know who your kids friends are, who they feel uncomfortable around, which teachers they like and dislike, and most importanly, the reasons WHY they like, dislike, or fear these people. If you never establish a baseline understanding of your child, you most likely won't even know that they're being bullied, as the 5 minute car ride to school didn't offer any clues.
Having stayed in the town I was raised in I've got to see the adult version of both the bullies and the bullied. Don't try to sell me on any bullshit about a little bullying 'toughening a kid up', as it doesn't hold water in my town. Many of the people I know that was either ridiculed or physically abused by other children (or adults) seem to fit into one of two categories:
1) They seem meek in both their professional and personal lives.
2) They're assholes to their kids and subordinates, as revenge must taste sweet for them.
Either way, they would have been happier and more complete people if they had never been exposed to this unneccessary bullshit as kids.
If you're too damn lazy to raise your kids in a safe and productive environment, then buy a box of condoms, skip the kids, and save the rest of us the trouble of caring when you clearly don't.