Being called daddy, is it weird?

[TexanStar]

Look at Mike Pence calling his wife, “Mother”.

I did not need to hear that

 

[OKCLane]

I was fortunate enough to be born early, meaning my mom was young. Lots of negatives but I also got to know great-great-grandparents and aunts. This thread reminded me of the pet names they used for each other; mother, father and daddy being the most common but sweetie bird was one too I’m certain that these terms had no sexual connotation as these were the most religious and uptight people I was ever around. Lol
Fast forward to the Yahoo Chat Rooms - some of you are old enough to remember them. Being called Daddy or Papi was a deal breaker for me - made me feel old.
Now I’m married to a man and there are two grandchildren I would take a bullet for. Sometimes my husband will call me grandpa which makes me smile.
I grew up in a world where what I have today was unthinkable. I’m legally married to a man. I’m a stepdad. I love being grandpa.

Okay - just read my post. Really went off the rails topic-wise. Do what makes you happy in your relationship. Who cares what a stranger thinks as long as you and your partner are happy. Always practice the Golden Rule. Peace.

 

[whitewood87]

I personally do not like to be called it, but alot of people do seem to enjoy calling someone that or being called that. It seems to be a dominance or age play thing.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I was fortunate enough to be born early, meaning my mom was 14. Lots of negatives but I also got to know great-great-grandparents and aunts. This thread reminded me of the pet names they used for each other; mother, father and daddy being the most common but sweetie bird was one too I’m certain that these terms had no sexual connotation as these were the most religious and uptight people I was ever around. Lol
Fast forward to the Yahoo Chat Rooms - some of you are old enough to remember them. Being called Daddy or Papi was a deal breaker for me - made me feel old.
Now I’m married to a man and there are two grandchildren I would take a bullet for. Sometimes my husband will call me grandpa which makes me smile.
I grew up in a world where what I have today was unthinkable. I’m legally married to a man. I’m a stepdad. I love being grandpa.

Okay - just read my post. Really went off the rails topic-wise. Do what makes you happy in your relationship. Who cares what a stranger thinks as long as you and your partner are happy. Always practice the Golden Rule. Peace.

You didn't leave the topic. The OP asked our personal opinions of being called "daddy". I gave mine, you and others gave theirs. Everyone is free to do as they wish. While I find it juvenile and incestuous and don't find those characteristics sexy, some others surely do, and good for them. I only judge how I feel about the term, not judging others for liking it.

 

[keenobserver]

I never used the term when I was young - and early on most of my partners were older, some old enough to be my father. As others have noted it had an incestuous shade to it that was not appealing to be. For several years now (okay more than several) I've had younger partners call me Dad, Daddy or Papi. Given the intimacy I have had with those guys, I did not mind it at all, and it usually came with great affection. To my surprise, it moved me. I don't urge anyone to call me that, but I have to admit, I like it when they do.

 

[twoton]

I don’t like it, but it’s not as bad as hearing “Come to momma!” Which I heard a couple times.

 

[Dport]

It doesn't bring to mind incestuous thoughts for me.

But it does bring to mind baby girl, baby talk whatever the fuck. And I don't like that shit.

 

[stretch8888]

I've only come across one woman that was into the whole daddy thing, she was 19 i was 27, hardcore religious family, like 6 adopted african kids, i knew several guys that had been with her, she certainly didn't look the religious type but she put on a good act and talked the talk, until she got into the bedroom at which point you'd swear she was a stripper/pornstar and everything that came out of her mouth was daddy this daddy that, honestly some of the shit was pretty fucked up. I only fucked her a few times and always thought it was a bit weird and messed up but it wasnt actually the daddy thing i found annoying, it was her annoying ass voice and how she said it "OH DADDY! YES!, fuck me daddy, HARDER! HARDER DADDY!"

 

[LittleBuzzSaw]

Very weird. Instant mood kill.

 

[554279]

Weird and creepy as fuck, especially if I am laying pipe.

I would rather have someone call me shortdick mcfucknut while we are having sex.

 

[IntactMale]

I've never been called daddy in a sexual situation, but I don't feel like it would bother me, I can separate the word from any incestuous thoughts, though, it does have an age connotation.

I have been called daddy in a mock sexual way. Someone said it as they would if it were in a sexual situation, but the situation was clearly not even remotely sexual. That felt weird, but there was a lot weird about the situation, the conversation, and the person in the conversation, so I'm not really sure what aspect bothered me.

I don't think I would ever want to be called daddy, but I don't think it would bother me if that was something someone wanted to call me.

 

[Cm4hjl]

Doesn't really matter to me. Seems it's more about the other person wanting to call me daddy. If they get off on it, I'm good

 

[Jarizzi]

I think it’s insanely hot when an older guy calls a younger, dominant guy ‘daddy’. I think I get off on the role reversal and the power that this gives the younger guy.

 

[xmarksbreakdownx]

Being call daddy makes me so very uncomfortable. One girl kept saying it and I just had to ask her to stop. I had a guy call me that in a chat once multiple times and I had to block him.

I mean, I know it works for some people, so that's whatever.

 

[ronin001]

As always a thread makes me think of an old movie. This one was Biloxi Blues . Mathew Broderick is about to loose his virginity

 

[malakos]

I think "weird" would be a bit strong for how I react to it. I could probably play that way and not be turned off. But I really just don't get it, hard as I try to. I've been with a couple guys who liked to describe themselves as a "Daddy" type. I think they sensed that I didn't get it so we just avoided that particular dynamic.

I think the whole daddy thing is based on sub Dom thing and if you had asked me 10 years ago I would have been creeped out by it but now....

Well, it is in that axis, so to speak, but referencing D/s isn't a sufficient explanation. The Daddy thing is a very specific flavor of it. I'm personally quite fond of D/s and very much enjoy "Sir" and "boy". I even get the Master/slave dynamic, though it is something I hold at arm's length. Daddy/Mommy/son/daughter/lb/lg, on the other hand, I flat out cannot wrap my mind around what's behind it.

 

[INCUBUS]

My 2 demons call me dad being they are old enough to see me as their Dad and not their daddy like when they were toddlers.

In the bedroom I prefer Sir depending on who I am with and what we are doing

 

[AdamHenry]

Call me what ever you want. As long as I'm getting some, it doesn't matter. Mothafucka works too.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I remember in old movies the men calling their wives Mother, Mum, or Ma, and the women calling their husbands Pappy, PA, Father, etc. I also remember some old books where calling a man Dad was akin to calling him a dweeb.

I don't do it unprompted. It would never even cross my mind. My pet names for men are based on their personalities, inside jokes, or are typical signs of affection, like Baby, Honey, and the like. I guess the closest I get is Mister, which I only use as a greeting. A few men have referred to themselves as Daddy, and I have obliged them by following suit. It doesn't bother me, but I wouldn't choose that name for them on my own. The word has no association for me. I think I may have called my father Dad two or three times. I mostly just awaited eye contact and spoke only when I had his undivided attention. Generally, if I absolutely had to call him something, I called him by our last name, like everyone else.

If a dude called me Mommy, it would make me very uncomfortable.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Thinking about it some more, men call me Mama or Maybe, or Mami all the time. I think nothing of it.

An ex accidentally called me Mom once. Freaked us both right the fuck out