Being called the 'N' word during sex

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  1. IlStroke4U

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    This isnt large penis-sex specific question. But I am black and it often arouses me when a guy (of any race) uses the n word,such as "fuck me nigg-- " or..."give me that nigg-- dick"

    has anyone else ever engaged in this or wanted to?

    if not,how would you react if your partner said that to you/asked you to say it to them?
     
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    I've been told ''U like this nigga''

    :p
     
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    Hmm, For the most part, it would make me very uneasy.

    But,,,,I guess if I was close enough to you to be your partner, and you really wanted me to, I might. However, it would most definitely NOT be "N..er" , but more like "N..a".

    When I was in grade school/Jr High, almost all of my friends in my neighborhood were black. They called each other, and even me that. It took me a while, but eventually I became accustomed to it.

    My question would be, why you would want someone to call you that during sex?
     
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    I would be shit scared to use that word, here in the uk we are assured that if we do the world will come to an end
     
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    I tried it out with a girl in college. She was a bit squeamish about it at first because of her upbringing but after getting comfortable with saying it, we had some great times.
    It's definitely a turn on for me. I'm not sure, I think it has to do with the taboo aspect of the whole affair; it just seems wrong. I suppose it's similar to S&M or how some women enjoy verbal abuse like being called a bitch and such. It's twisted, it's dirty, it's unorthodox, and it's hot. I think you would really need to embrace the dark side of yourself to be into something like this, which I fully do.
     
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    I would be so turned off and offended.

    I'd spit dead in her face and put my dick right back in my pants.

    I don't tolerate racism.
     
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    Believe it or not, I am Asian and have this chocolate horse-hung dick. Don't know how I inherited the big penis genes -- probably from my dad's side. Never been called the "N" word, which is insulting and demeaning to the black.
     
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    It's only racism if the word is used in a hurtful way.

    Gangstas call each other by that term all the time now. It has the same meaning in some circles as "bro" does now. I've even heard black men calling their white homies by that name.

    It's kinda like "faggot" - if used in a condescending way, it is one of the lowest of the low put downs, however, gay men call each other that all the time and is now a source of empowerment.
     
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    I was seeing a guy last summer (about two months) who wanted me to say it during nasty sex. Made me beg for his *&^%#( cock, and would use it himself when he was doing me. He was totally into it, but I would never just assume a guy wanted that said. He has to bring that up.
     
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    Ha Ha Ha. I know exactly what you mean.
     
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    Ive heard it once or twice. Its akwardly funny
     
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    I'm white and have a lot of black friends and I have a black boy friend. I DON'T like the "N" word, never have and I've never used it. I know black guys often refer to each other using that word. It seems to be more popular now amoung younger black guys....

    Anyway, I've even been called a nigg...., you know the rest. I didn't like it but I didn't respond to it either. It has TOO much of a hateful history and baggage to it.

    Now, I can't understand why anyone would use it during sex with a black person. It's never even entered my mind. Now, I have a strong attraction to black guys but I've never thought of using it during a sexual encounter.

    I like all kinds of guys but I prefer black guys; it's just what I like personally. To be frank, they usually have more athletic and attractive bodies, I LOVE the feel of their skin and their hair. I would go on but you probably get the picture...
     
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    Me and one of my (black) friends talk about this once, and we both agreed it would be a major turn on to have a girl tell us "Give me that nigga dick" or anything like that.
     
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    Yes, the dark side, or as that mad Christian woman who was spouse-swapped into a pagan household said, the dork side....
     
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    Im sorry but come on people. Its just a word. Look at the intent behind it. "Person" can be a dirty word if its said with a sneer to someone you hate.
     
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    Why is it ok for blacks to call each other nigga when whites can't - even used in the same fashion? It's like calling my best girlfriend a bitch. She knows how it's being used. I would never call her a bitch in a negative/derogatory fashion. I have a black fuck buddy and I'd love to yell fuck me nigga as he pounds my ass but of course I don't. Guess I should discuss it with him. I do yell during sex and like saying things like fuck me harder, mutha fucka. It's a turn on for me.
     
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    "Bitch" is pretty derogatory, but it doesn't carry the negative history that the n-word has. I admit that it may be hard for some folks who aren't black to understand, but I wish folks would just accept that it's offensive to many of us and let it go.

    Let's phrase it another way... Would you let a swastika fly with a Jewish friend?

     
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    There's an entire genre of pornography based on women and men getting fucked by BIG BLACK COCKS. In most of these scenes you'll hear someone say "i want to suck that big black cock" or "fuck me with that big black dick". Personally i don't see that replacing the word black with nigger/nigga makes much difference. We all have different extremes i guess.
     
  20. IlStroke4U

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    I guess during sex/camming/phone sex etc is the only time it would be ok, it's weird, but as some have said it's like being called bitch,whore,slut,etc during sex...if you like to be dominated or demeaned in anyway during sex then you might enjoy that,or on the other side, if you like to dominate or have control you might like saying it...also like other aspects of sex,the fact that it's so taboo also makes it a turn on,i never thought about it before until someone said it to me & i found myself oddly aroused by it
     
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