Being compared to her ex?

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  1. Gmor

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    I am interested in hearing stories about when you've been compared to her past (or even current) boyfriends/ex's etc. Things such as 'you're so much bigger' or even when getting laid like 'you're so much deeper'.
    I love hearing stories about this. More detail is better and would be much appreciated.
    Cheers,
     
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    How bout the other way around? One of my friend is about 6" but thick and his old girlfriend told him her last boyfriend is 8". He said he didnt care just cuz she said he's thicker than the ex.
     
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    i prefer to never compare out loud. I never told my ex I had been with anyone bigger than him. it served no purpose. I hope I end up with someone much larger...and I'm not sure if I will share with the new person that they are much bigger, etc.
     
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    The guy I'm sleeping with now knows he's bigger than my exes, but only because we're good friends and had discussed it before entering into a +benefits relationship.

    Otherwise, I prefer to play it safe and not bring it up unless I'm specifically asked. It's too easy to mistake a compliment for a backhanded compliment or be accused of lying to stroke an ego.
     
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    I think if you're a girl's biggest then you deserve to know it.
     
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    Why is size always a male issue ? Maybe too many guys end up with a donkey cunt for a girl friend
     
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    I've had a number of girlfriends who have commented on my girth being thicker than some of their previous boyfriends. One girlfriend I had told me all about her ex-boyfriends when we were having sex. She'd been with guys longer than me (10"+), but she couldn't remember any guys who were as thick as me. She could remember all 75 guys she had sex with in detail. She would keep a journal of it and shared it with me. I found it exciting to hear about her time in college when she did 4 guys in the same night. She wasn't really a size queen, but she dated a lot of guys who were at least 8". She had measured at least 35 of the guys who were hung. She also told me about some of the smaller cocks she had. My favorite story was a good friend of hers from back in high school who was so long, he could go in all of the way and still have a handful outside of her. She said he measured just under 11" (tape measure on top). But according to her, he was half my girth.
     
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    smart. not being the biggest guy around, I have been told a few times that I'm the biggest my partners have had. I do appreciate the comment and it makes me feel good but I never really believe that it's true and it somewhat messes with my trust in them slightly or makes me sad that they've had such bad luck with cocks.

    then again, we men tend to watch a lot of porn or spend time on sites like this so I too realize my idea of reality may be skewed somewhat...lol

    I just watched STRIPPED on HBO where a guy photographs naked people in Vegas. Mostly small cocks there...or to be fair, not many "show-ers"...
     
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    Sometimes it can be a huge turnon! Other times, I don't even imagine a gf with any other men other than me. I've only been the biggest a gf has had once, and that was many years ago. Usually am one of their smaller lovers. Or the average size, with her having been with more bigger but a few smaller.

    Like I said, it depends on the situation/mood. It can be incredibly hot having your girl laying next to you, playing with your cock, and showing with her hand how you compare to others she's been with.
     
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    This is me with everyone previous to TheBF.

    I never gave out details about anyone's penis size because of how sensitive men are about the subject, not that I measured any of them, but I was generally aware of differences. Not only did it seem like it might open up a dangerous can of worms to compare them, it also seemed too indiscreet for my tastes. If a lover tells you something in confidence, I don't think that trust ends when you break up, or it shouldn't in my book, and that goes for what happens in bed, too. I also think that if you tell a man intimate details about your previous lovers, then you've just told him how much you're going to reveal about him and that will make him distrust you to the extent that you've revealed that you are untrustworthy.

    The only boyfriend I've ever discussed penis size with or compared against any previous lovers is TheBoyfriend, and that's solely because he's the only one that I've ever had size incompatibility issues with. I've been with what I consider to be a lot of men, and he's the biggest and he knows it because it's been a problem.
     
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    It always seems to slip out unintentionally, I think women are pretty self-conscious about not bringing up ex-boyfriends, but in the heat of the moment you'll get the odd comment like "god I've never had anything this big inside me".
     
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    I am the opposite of most posters here, I am the smallest my wife has ever had. I asked and after some time and additional prompting she admitted to me (what I knew to be true) that she thought I was small from the very first time we slept together but she never said anything. She has told me about past lovers/partners/ boyfriends and their sizes telling me they were all bigger than me and that she very much enjoyed the way the bigger ones filled her, she enjoys the feeling of being full and deeply penatrated. We will use various toys to replicate to a degree this feeling. I am ok with all of this and do enjoy hearing about how big her previous partners were and what it was like with them.
     
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    who really cares what size one is. If you can not use it then size is wasted. All my friends tell me I am great in bed not because of my size, which is ample, but because I show how much I care and enjoy being with them. This is demostrated in movement voice inflection and size of orgasm.
     
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    Whenever I was was compared to an ex, the gf always brought it up. I always came out on top. The first time it happened to me was an ego boost for sure. She said, "You are really well endowed. A lot bigger than what I'm used to". Put a smile on my face right away. Good thing it was a phone conversation. :biggrin1:
     
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    this, if a girl started talking about her ex while we were at it i would just assume she is still not over him.
    i mean why the hell would i wanna know about her ex?
     
  16. Beep

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    Thats quite interesting. She been with lots of Mandingo length guys. 10" dicks are very rare even in in porn. She was very lucky than...

    I also dont understand about that 11" ( Measured from the top ). Assuming you have 6.5" , lets say you have 7" midshaft girth.

    That guy had 3.5" midshaft girth? Or lets count it from the top, lets say you have 2.25" wide cock, that guy has 1" width?

    Sounds too weird for me. 11" nbpel dick with 3.5" girth? Or 1" width? I think I've never saw anything like that in forums/porn.

    I totally agree with you. I really found disguisting when I think that my Gf was been with other guy in the past.

    So I would try to never think about that and never ask about her Ex'es.
     
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    My current GF has had only one partner before me. I am smaller than him. When we talked about exs once she mentioned that sex was not that great. When I asked why she said "he was huge." This was when she told me he must have been about a nine. I am 7. She says sex is better with me, however the reason she states is because he was "rough, had a huge cock and plowed her all night." I don't mind being compared but I always wonder if she secretly wants more...
     
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    I agree. Unless a previous boyfriend threatened to cut the eyes out of any guy who would later date her, I'd prefer to not know much at all about previous partners.
     
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    Why don't you ask her? Perhaps she simply prefers tenderness, paying attention to her needs and so on.
     
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    You know, sex with you might be better than with him. Seriously.
     
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