being compared to past boyfriends

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careful guys...
I know im not HUGE. 7.5x6.3
but sometimes you get used to being on the 'bigger' side.

you know what my old muay thai coach would say?

there is always someone bigger and faster, so dont get cocky.

being that most of us are in the 95th and up percentile doesn't mean that you are always going to be 'biggest' that someone has had :tongue:
 

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Every time she tells me how much bigger I am then her ex, it warms my heart. There's nothing like a little ego boost, even when one doesn't really need it. :tongue:
 

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Have you ever had a girlfriend tell you how much bigger you are than your ex? If so, what did she say and what was your reaction.


All of the girls I have been with have all said I was bigger than anyone they had been with in the past. One who I was engaged to for quite a while upon breaking up said I had ruined her for the other guys, she doubted she would be able to find someone my size again......... interesting enough before me she had never been with anyone above average and she took it the first time and every time like a damn champion. She was 5'10 slim model with boyish hips which might have made a difference. She also happened to be my first and so I thought others like her would be able to take me without any problem, I was dead wrong of course. I really had no reaction to hearing this but was just happy I brought her so much intense pleasure as she did me.

As for guys, Most all of the guys I have been with have said I was the biggest they had been with, guessing alone I would say 5+ said they had been with someone bigger. The reaction with them is different, I just think they are saying this cause they believe it is something I wanna hear. Nothing could be further from the truth since I love to see or hear about someone bigger than me.


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mine has said agian and agian that im way bigger than all her old bfs and one was balck
she said im bigger than all three combined


Combined ? yeahhhhh , they must have ALL been smaller than the standard average size of 5".



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Every time she tells me how much bigger I am then her ex, it warms my heart. There's nothing like a little ego boost, even when one doesn't really need it. :tongue:

I'll have to admit to getting a kick out of size comments from a woman. Any man here who fits the playbill has been told he's bigger, etc--- It's when the words are "bigger and better" that we have a right to puff ourselves up.
 

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I must admit I've gotten comments a few times. Some girls are good at making tactful comments that really help with the moment, about how much they like it and how they want it so bad... on the other side I have two bad experiences... (and seems this is a support group ;-))

The first was with a widow, who told me I was exactly 2" bigger and about twice as thick as her dead husband (who she thought was pretty well proportioned) and that she had trouble taking me even though she had previously had kids. I can tell you, this wasn't just a turn off, it was a bit creepy.

The second was in a threesome with a married couple where I was the bigger man. Wasn't a problem til she started talking about... it in the act. I was embarassed, but her husband was even more...
 

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Yeah, I'm pretty used to hearing I'm bigger than other guys, like the ex or the last guy she hooked up with or whatever. Yeah it's still sort of hot to hear but I've heard it enough times that I just sort of expect some kind of comment like that.
 

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I talk about ex's with a new guy but in a general way i.e. if he asked if i'd been to a certain place I might mention that I went there with an ex, but I have found that some guys will hint or prompt you until you talk about an ex, they want to hear they're bigger/better than him.
 

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Sex ought to be personal and it ought to be private. It helps to keep the proper aura of mystery around sex.
I've found that if I don't tell others,who have no business knowing about my sex life, they don't ever ask. They are free to draw whatever
conclusions they want from my behavior in public. My partners and I were always happy to be seen together and others probably sensed that my partners and I were more than good friends.
 

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A girl i was with recently told me many times when we were having sex "I'm not used to guys this big." She was saying it both as a good thing and because she wanted to warn me to be gentle. After we had sex the first time she went on for a while talking about how she was really shocked by my size and wanted to give me oral and have sex but was really nervous that i was too big. What's funny is that she seemed to handle it better than any othe girls i've been with.

In the end I found out she went and told her friends the same thing as what she had said to me.