OK I want to know why a lot of gay guys are so damn flamboyant. I find a lot of them to be cute, but as soon as they open their mouths and start talking like girls I feel like they are disrespecting what it is to be a man. I know this might offend a lot of people, and that's why I'm asking anonymously on a forum. When I was younger, from time to time, I would do something a little gay, and my dad would tell me not do it, because it makes you look weak. I'm not going to say I'm super macho, because I'm not at all, I don't care if people think I act a little gay, but I don't throw my hands everywhere or ask for hugs or say things like "awwww that's so cute" or "whyyyyyyyyy", you know? Like a girl does. I feel like being a male endows you with a certain responsibility and that is to be strong and let it be apparent that are, even if you're not. I don't feel like being gay means you are allowed to give up that responsibility. Comments? Please don't flame, I want to have a real discussion about this.