Being girthy - a curse or a blessing?

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My husband is over 7.5" in the middle and slightly over 8" at the base. BJ's are pretty much impossible unless he is flaccid. I have to be very well lubed and stimulated for pain free sex. In spite of that, I like it.
 

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I feel that I'm blessed to have the girth that I do, at the same time, I see it as a curse. I personally, love blow jobs, but I can take a while to cum from them. The part that sucks about having a really thick cock, is that sometimes it can hurt the jaw of the person trying to blow you- they're trying to accomodate to the best of their abilities. TMJ is not something to fuck around with. And feeling teeth while getting head can ruin a moment of climax. TRUST ME!

Not only that, but as a gay male, I get asked to top/fuck men quite a bit, and sometimes- IT JUST WON'T FIT! And trying to force it, no matter with lube or spit, it can hurt me and that person. Normally, my rule is that if someone can't take at least 3 of my fingers, I can't fuck them... And my hand can cover a DVD case, so...It's cool and all, but it can be a pain in the ass.

Literally.

Dante'
 

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I def prefer girth to length! I am quite short in statue and although I have become accustomed to having my cervix smashed into it can ruin the moment if it's constant!


PLUS nothing and I mean nothing beats a thick cock skidding into a wet pussy for the first time!!
 

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I suppose it depends how girthy. Bignswoll and various others, here (and elsewhere) might have a job on their hands. For me, it's just patience and lube. I have seen, over the years, a few porn films and remember being amazed at how easily the women 'accomodate' even the largest penis (I'm thinking of some huge black dudes). No resistance, plenty of room. Might as well have been a small dick. OK, they're porn stars but maybe that adds another element (stretch?) to whether or not being girthy is a curse or a blessing.
Frankly, I think length is a curse. You just can't thrust the way you'd like to. Patience and lube doesn't help. :redface:
 

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I absolutely LOOOVE being girthy! my bulge shows unless I sag my pants, no matter what, chicks notice it, my GF LOVES it, much more than my length, and every girl I have ever been with has been almost hypnotized in a way ( only way I can explain) about just how THICK my cock is. And I know a lot of people on this site are claiming girths of 6.5" and up, which unless you can show me valid proof, I believe is BULLSHIT. Just be happy with your true measurements, as they are still massive. Because I come in at just under 6 1/4" girth at my thickest point now and 5 and 5/8" at the base, and from my research, is 1/4" short of the girthiest ever medically recorded.:cool: My current girth pic is about a year old and I've grown slightly since then. Sorry for rambling but yes being girthy is most definitely a blessing. As far as I know girth is leagues more important than length. As long as you have a solid 5" length minimum with girth, you'll be a pleaser. And my Bi-curious side definitely likes a thick dick to suck on and get fucked by over a long skinny one any day.:rolleyes:


Can't help reacting to this post..... 6 1/4" girth is 1/4" girth short of the girthiest ever recorded? Maybe I should sign up for a medical research concerning girth then somewhere. And yes, there are a lot of fakers here when it comes to measuring, but I'm sure that I'm nowhere close being the most girthy person on this site. And I'm 6 3/4" at the base.... (check my album....17cm-->6 3/4")

And back on topic: is it a blessing or a curse? Depends on the woman I'm in bed with..... A month ago I was in bed with this girl and it just wouldn't fit..... On that moment it was a real curse! :biggrin1:
 

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I absolutely LOOOVE being girthy! my bulge shows unless I sag my pants, no matter what, chicks notice it, my GF LOVES it, much more than my length, and every girl I have ever been with has been almost hypnotized in a way ( only way I can explain) about just how THICK my cock is. And I know a lot of people on this site are claiming girths of 6.5" and up, which unless you can show me valid proof, I believe is BULLSHIT. Just be happy with your true measurements, as they are still massive. Because I come in at just under 6 1/4" girth at my thickest point now and 5 and 5/8" at the base, and from my research, is 1/4" short of the girthiest ever medically recorded.:cool: My current girth pic is about a year old and I've grown slightly since then. Sorry for rambling but yes being girthy is most definitely a blessing. As far as I know girth is leagues more important than length. As long as you have a solid 5" length minimum with girth, you'll be a pleaser. And my Bi-curious side definitely likes a thick dick to suck on and get fucked by over a long skinny one any day.:rolleyes:

Can't help reacting to this post..... 6 1/4" girth is 1/4" girth short of the girthiest ever recorded? Maybe I should sign up for a medical research concerning girth then somewhere. And yes, there are a lot of fakers here when it comes to measuring, but I'm sure that I'm nowhere close being the most girthy person on this site. And I'm 6 3/4" at the base.... (check my album....17cm-->6 3/4")

And back on topic: is it a blessing or a curse? Depends on the woman I'm in bed with..... A month ago I was in bed with this girl and it just wouldn't fit..... On that moment it was a real curse! :biggrin1:
Yeah....

I don't have pictures, but I measured one at slightly over 7.5. No that is not normal, but I met up with him specifically because of his size.
 

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Unless you're so girthy that keeping it hard is a problem (Shane Diesel and other huge porn stars) then it can't be a curse. I wish I was 6-6.5 around myself.
 
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Is this a serious question? I'm 3.5" in circumfrence...my wife's BF is nearly 6" around. He made her cum 3 times the last time he was in town (& in her pussy). Stamina is also one of his strengths! Penetration orgasms with me are a rarity.

Enjoy what you've got...just take is easy at first!