Being girthy - a curse or a blessing?

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A mixed blessing. Fine for show and tell, but getting a good blowjob can be a problem. It takes a pretty decent cocksucker to go deep and last a long time. That being one of my favorite pastimes, it's frustrating when you have a willing partner who's not able to satisfy. On the other hand, it attracts more talent who are appreciative, enthusiastic and can handle it. So on balance I'd say much more a blessing than a curse.
 

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I've found it mostly a blessing. Some guys really get into it, which is fun. Since I'm physically smaller than most, it is usually a surprise, which is also fun.

On the other hand, I've been left with more than one case of blue balls because it was too much for some guys, especially since I prefer other smaller framed guys.
 

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Now that we have addressed this issue well we should continue with some other questions equally puzzling.
Like is being rich a blessing?
Is being handsome, tall, kind hearted and all around good guy a blessing or a curse?
Is being likable and well liked a good thing or does it actually suck?
 

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I have found it a blessing. I like satisfying women sexually and my cock gets the job done. one less thing to deal with. it's like being rich, money you have, and you have to deal with a lot of bullshit. one less thing to deal with, makes your life easier, and more enjoyable. my wife says she gets turned on by the contrast between my thick cock and thin, muscular build.
 

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when I lived the str8 life women loved the girth since coming out I find that men love to look at it stroke it & suck it but few are willing to bend over & take it
 

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Luckily I am not a huge anal fan, because often both women and men are reluctant when the see my thickness. On the other hand I have had the same experience as others with my ability to satisfy women, who love the feeling of being stretched, with quick and multiple orgasms. The nice thing about having a foreskin on a thick cock is that it cuts down on the friction so that the woman can enjoy being stretched without getting sore. I love to look down and see the labia all stretched around it and the clit popping out on top of my cock. Another nice thing about being uncut is that even if she or he can't get her or his mouth around it, they can play with the foreskin... hot in itself.
 

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Girls love the girth, and every pussy is tight. This means sex is always fantastic, but you cant skimp on the foreplay or lube. On the plus side, the girls ive been with say that being really filled up helps them get off more frequently.

Girth makes a cock look really impressive. I love how my cock looks and im only average length (under 6"), being a bit over 6" around adds some illusion to the size. I've had comments from girls (and guys) that i look more like 7" or 8" long. Girls invariably like seeing it, and everyone gets turned on.

I've never had a blow job. well not successfully anyway. Girl gets sore jaws, i get teeth scrapping my cock. This is not pleasant for anyone. I suspect that anal would be limited as well (im not into anal so ive no idea).

buying condoms can be a nightmare. I've found one shop in my town that sells anything remotely wide enough for me. It's a local sex shop, which is a bit awkward. I've run into people i know and had 'oh hi... pause... yeah um im not a nasty lecher really' conversations: not fun. telling someone that you are buying extra large condoms and not porn doesnt make it any easier

Despite the disadvantages, i wouldnt trade my girth for length any day!

Hey, let's see a little picture of that chubber, dude!! I agree, girth is nice to have; but, I have to tell you as a gay man (and straight guys will agree), that second chamber in a guy's (or girl's) ass is one incredible place to go - AND that takes LENGTH to get there. Glad to have both!
 
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Well, my fuck-buddy (woman) says she doesn't care for girthy cocks. She has a smaller mouth and can't give one a BJ without hurting her jaw or biting them accidently. Also, her last guy had a large cock, and she said they could only have sex once every second or third day, because she was so sore from it.
Me, however, she has no difficulties with. She deep throated me me many times yesterday.....loved it......and we have fuck 3 or 4 times a day before. So I guess there is a couple good things to having a little cock.
 

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I like the girth myself for vaginal sex, except I haven't succeeded in deep throating him fully erect or having anal sex, so that's a downside. He had a size-queen fuckbuddy who had no problem with his girth, so I guess it depends on your sex partner and how expeienced he/she is with "size." :frown1:

I just asked TheBoyfrind and he said he thinks thick is better than long. Too long is a problem. :redface:

don't be sad, I dunno about him but I personally find it an ego boost to be 'too much' for a girl