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I'll speak from a female perspective and personality disorders. For me I've gotten many different lovers in and out because I cannot form bonds I don't date and that allows me to keep my list fresh.
Tink and I have similar diagnosis, so I understood what she said. :redface: Which part is puzzling to you?I find this a little confusing. I'm hoping you were rushed trying to write it. Please clarify.
I'll speak from a female perspective and personality disorders. For me I've gotten many different lovers in and out because I cannot form bonds I don't date and that allows me to keep my list fresh.
a lack of clarifying syntax and general run on sentence feel and the ...like that?
Are you talking about have one relationship run into another so frequently, that the feelings become a blur?
No, in this case, her diagnosis makes it difficult for her to form close emotional bonds with people. She is beautiful and enigmatic so she has no trouble attracting lovers . . . when she leaves the house. It is difficult for her to do the work required to maintain a relationship so she often ends up pushing lovers away. Hence the ability to have many lovers and keep her list fresh.
I thought it was a neurological thing because it deals with the brain and how it filters information.That's no surprise because Aspies have trouble reading facial cues and voice inflections so forming relationships is always difficult for them.Well, I don't know if Aspergers is a mental illness per-say, but I just don't get into very many relationships period.
You need a change of venue then. That type of man never goes out of style. :wink:I'm more the strong-protective silent type. Oddly, women (around here at least) don't like that.
Relationships are hard for me. I can barely remember what I'm supposed to do day-to-day, even then I have to write it down on my pda or something. But sex for me, especially with a woman, is an experience every time. Every time I learn something about her. Where her pleasure spots are, where her stress is, and what I need to do to please her 100%.
Often silence can be read by others as lack of interest. Men on the other hand find the quiet part very attractive, but only for a short period of time.Its just the social part I'm not good at. They think I'm too quiet.
I think that issue has been addressed in a few other threads. Many 100% gay men don't want to be involved with a man who will leave them for a woman. 100% straight women definetely don't want to put their heart on the line for a man that could just as easily leave them for the next hot guy that walks by.Not to mention most people don't want a LTR with a Bi- guy.
IMHO, there are a few bi-guys who have no clue how to be monogamous and have thus ruined it for bi-guys who can.
true.. true... but isn't any mental illness neurological?I thought it was a neurological thing because it deals with the brain and how it filters information.That's no surprise because Aspies have trouble reading facial cues and voice inflections so forming relationships is always difficult for them.
thanks :smile:You need a change of venue then. That type of man never goes out of style. :wink:
Many 100% gay men don't want to be involved with a man who will leave them for another man. 100% straight women definetely don't want to put their heart on the line for a man that could just as easily leave them for the next hot guy that walks by.
IMHO, there are a few bi-guys who have no clue how to be monogamous and have thus ruined it for bi-guys who can.
Some say it is but others disagree. I disagree. Some neurological disorders may cause depression or anxiety which are mental health issues. However, I have never heard of depression causing a neurological impairment.true.. true... but isn't any mental illness neurological?
You're welcome.thanks :smile:
Oops that was a typo! :redface: The truth of course is that even straight men cheat on their girlfriends. I guess the thinking is that if you are bisexual you have twice as many opportunities to cheat.Thats exactly the thinking... that bi men WILL leave them for someone else.
Some say it is but others disagree. I disagree. Some neurological disorders may cause depression or anxiety which are mental health issues. However, I have never heard of depression causing a neurological impairment.
Being depressed is basically a neuro-transmitter/catecholamine imbalance in the brain, eg: norepinephrine, serotonin... which over time can cause some neurotransmitters to shutdown and cause irreparable damage neurologically. I agree with most neurologists but thats my own little opinion.