I feel my girl friend (of more than 2 years) is more in love with our relationship than with me. I mean, she weighs the security that our relationship offers her, more than me. She agrees to everything I say to "keep up" the relationship - which I find very difficult to believe. I feel I dont know person and I just know this person who agrees to whatever I say. I contradict myself several times just to test her but she agrees to everything. She negates her friends and my friends in many conversations but not me!! I understand she sees me as someone she wants to marry...but in my shoes, I'd like to know the real 'her' before I think about marriage. I am a little confused and wondering if anyone else has felt this way.