Being judgemental?

Discussion in 'Et Cetera, Et Cetera' started by D_Ukraine_Muhdik, Jan 4, 2010.

  1. D_Ukraine_Muhdik

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    How can someone be judgemental, when they don't realize they are being so? How can one keep friends, and not cause them to stop talking to them?
     
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    There is a difference in being honest and being malicious. You have to find that balance and your friends should come to understand that balance as they get to know you. If they can't handle how you are, then ask yourself: Is it worth you changing yourself to be like them?
     
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    just because you are judgemental, doesnt mean you have to be vocal.
     
  4. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Exactly.
    Making judgments is part of life, deciding what is good V's bad or right V's wrong. However what some lack is the ability to know when to keep their judgments to themselves or how to voice them tactfully.
     
  5. Calboner

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    I hear that Judge Mental hands down bizarre sentences.
     
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    It's all relative. Some people perceive everything as judgmental, which technically is a form of judgementalism.
     
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    I now declare you man and thread...:confused:
     
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    Mom always said if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
     
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