There is a gym I like in the morning. I've noticed the locker room is fairly relaxed too. I don't see any towel dancing and there are men that walk around nude from their locker too their shower. So there is a lot of casual nudity.
After I've showered, I've dry off in the foyer, where I'm on display, so people who are using the restroom, shaving, or coming into the shower foyer can see me. Initially I felt comfortable to be naked and it shouldn't be an issue, and there maybe a exhibitionist streak in me because I work out a lot and I have a nice defined body.
One morning, another gay man walked into that shower foyer, who has been giving me looks on the weight rooom floor. We don't talk but I know he's gay because he comes in with a gay workout partner, and I have the gay vibe from him. When he and I had eye contact, I sensed immediately he was checking me out completely naked, and then went into the shower stall, to get out of that ogled position, because I was looking directly at him.
Since then, I haven't been comfortable showering in the morning because he's there regularly. I'm not attracted to this guy, but I feel exposed in a way, because every time I see him in the gym, he tends to 'eye fuck' me when I notice him.
I know it's a locker room, and I should expect people looking at me naked, and I thought I was comfortable with nudity, but it bothers me if someone I'm not attracted too sees me naked. I know this is a double standard, but I think other guys on this forum have had similiar feelings about being nude around men that are attracted too them, and you're not attracted back.
Granted, the guy has never went out of the way too see me naked, like follow me or deliberately have his locker next to mine, yet -- but we shower at the same time every morning, and it's the vibe I get from him.
On the same level, I also feel kind of a double standard on myself, because I've wanted to see other guys naked that I was attracted too, but I try not to give off the "eye fuck" vibe, but when I catch a glimpse of a good looking guy, it does feel good to see them.
I feel I'm being a prude, but I wanted to ask the opinion of others on the forum to how to manage others who see you naked, and tend to get a thrill off it, and you're not atttracted back.
After I've showered, I've dry off in the foyer, where I'm on display, so people who are using the restroom, shaving, or coming into the shower foyer can see me. Initially I felt comfortable to be naked and it shouldn't be an issue, and there maybe a exhibitionist streak in me because I work out a lot and I have a nice defined body.
One morning, another gay man walked into that shower foyer, who has been giving me looks on the weight rooom floor. We don't talk but I know he's gay because he comes in with a gay workout partner, and I have the gay vibe from him. When he and I had eye contact, I sensed immediately he was checking me out completely naked, and then went into the shower stall, to get out of that ogled position, because I was looking directly at him.
Since then, I haven't been comfortable showering in the morning because he's there regularly. I'm not attracted to this guy, but I feel exposed in a way, because every time I see him in the gym, he tends to 'eye fuck' me when I notice him.
I know it's a locker room, and I should expect people looking at me naked, and I thought I was comfortable with nudity, but it bothers me if someone I'm not attracted too sees me naked. I know this is a double standard, but I think other guys on this forum have had similiar feelings about being nude around men that are attracted too them, and you're not attracted back.
Granted, the guy has never went out of the way too see me naked, like follow me or deliberately have his locker next to mine, yet -- but we shower at the same time every morning, and it's the vibe I get from him.
On the same level, I also feel kind of a double standard on myself, because I've wanted to see other guys naked that I was attracted too, but I try not to give off the "eye fuck" vibe, but when I catch a glimpse of a good looking guy, it does feel good to see them.
I feel I'm being a prude, but I wanted to ask the opinion of others on the forum to how to manage others who see you naked, and tend to get a thrill off it, and you're not atttracted back.
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