Being ogled and being OK with that.

[cocktailweenie]

All these problems could be avoided if guys who like to look would all just look discreetly. That means not staring or making eye contact. A glimpse now and then should tell you all you want to know. That's the unwritten rule at my gym and as a result some incredibly hot young guys frequent the shower room.

 

[D_Doe_Ray_Mi]

Just be proud of your body and know that he enjoys it. I am not gay, however I am an artist and I cant help but admire beautiful things. I love the human form, both male and female, I like trees and animals and even bones. Sometimes people are just enjoying natural wonders, try not to feel threatened or creeped out. He may be sexualy attracted to you, but, it sounds like he isnt being agressive about it. As for me, I love being naked and if others enjoy seeing me I am glad of it. (

Very well said. Thanks. I am not gay and get hit on in locker rooms, steam rooms, etc., just consider it flattery and move on.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

but we shower at the same time every morning, and it's the vibe I get from him.

If your shower schedule syncs up with his every morning, he probably is following you. You could probably find another time to shower.