Hey guys, took me a while to post but some new incidents have inspired me to do so. Some background first: I would consider myself "bi-curious" to put a label on it. I'm 19, and I have a girlfriend who I really LIKE (it's too early to say love yet). I subscribe to the view that sexuality is more complex than it is cut and dry, and is all subject to situation, individual feelings etc etc. Which brings me on to my post. About a week ago, a few of my buddies and I went on a fishing trip, and stayed in a motel room, 2 to a double bed. On the first night we arrived, as I was getting changed into my pyjamas I was chating to my bedmate at the same time. I kept noticing his eyes flitting towards my crotch and boxers (which were pretty tight). I got pretty turned on by it, which was weird as I never expected this kind of thing from him, as he's very involved with a girl and i'm seeing one myself. Which, despite what many people here will say, i'm pretty sure he loves loads and I really, really like the girl I'm seeing. So that night, as we were adjusting in bed and falling in and out of sleep, I kept noticing we ended up close to each other, even so far as him having his knee against my crotch for a while. I'm pretty sure we were both awake, and I didn't think anything about it when we got up. Then, thinking to myself that it couldn't ALWAYS be accidental ending up the ways we did, I decided to conduct a little experiment, using any opertunites to be around him in my underwear and making my outline visible and stuff just see how he would react. Sure enough, he kept taking fleeting glances at my crotch when he could. Just from talking to him about sleeping habits and things, I found out that he had to sleep right on the edge of the bed facing outwards, which makes me certain that the first nights positioning was deliberate. So the next few nights he slept on the edge of the bed and I slept on mine (not to make it too obvious), but just as we were in bed all talking one night I laughed and said "look at all the space on the bed no one uses, if your not going to the might as well" and we laughed. This give me an excuse to get close to him in the bed. So that night I arranged myself (subtley) so that my outstretched arm could just about reach his crotch. As soon as I made contact with it I felt him get instantly hard. And he lay there, really quiet until I moved it (pretending to be asleep of couse). A short while later he rolled over into his usually position and fell asleep. Now, up until the next day he had been wearing loose boxer shorts at night in bed, when he changed to a tight pair like mine just before bed. I was lying outside the covers in mine, resting against the headboard just talking to everyone in the room, until it suddenly cleared out and left just us. He then lay on the bed with his head at the foot, crotch facing me and kept grabbing at it before he lay down. This makes me think he was trying to emulate me, and hoping to get the desired effect out of me that I was of him. Also, a few times he "accidentally" puts his hand on my crotch when hes clambering over me in bed on the way back from the bathroom. My question is this: What was his deal? Would he be like me in the sense that he's "bi-curious" so to speak? He has had a long term girlfriend that I'm pretty sure he's in love with so the "he's a homo" argument could be written out. Another question: Does any one else have similar stories to tell? I would love to hear them!