For those of you who have been refused sex because of your large size;did it result in hurt feelings or was it something of an ego-boost ? I would assume that it would feel better to be turned down because you were too big than if you were too small.Yes,you might be disappointed because a promising situation didn't quite turn out but it must feel good in some way;to know that you're so intimidating, and powerful sexually. When you were turned down...were you refused completely ?Not only no penetration but no oral nor manual stimulation as well ? And to the ladies that have refused large guys...do you feel any guilt by letting him know why you were turning him down ? Did you feel like you may have been hurting his feelings ?