I was originally going to title this "Gay men taking things out of context" but realized that most people have this ability... Recently, there have been a couple of things I've seen on this site and in my real life that make me laugh, but at the same time make me question some people's realities. I have a friend (who is gay) that thinks every straight man is hitting on him. He's had more defeats than successes in trying to bed them and it makes me laugh whenever he points out a man that he believes is "courting" him because they clearly aren't. Also, I've seen a couple of threads on this site recently with gay men questioning the actions of straight men in the vain that they're doing certain things to get attention; when it seems more like the OP is slightly delusional. Am I the only one noticing these types of instances and what do you say to someone who clearly has the wrong idea, without offending them or basically calling them bat shit crazy?