I have many friends who are girls. I consider them friends because we hang out, we drink, and we do other things most friends do. But the thing is that every time we hang out, sex is almost mandatory. And it's not like it's the first thing we do, then we watch TV and talk. It's always the last thing and then I'm shown the door. I feel like all the other crap they do is to make me feel like I'm not being used. I told this to one of my guy friends and he just made it worse. He made me think that I'm only good for sex when it comes to girls. I think I'm a good person. I'm funny. But he's right. I'm a booty call to all of my girl friends. They never call me when they are on their period. And one of them sometimes tells me to "bring my dick" with me over to the house. The point I'm trying to make is, should I care? I mean, as a man, aren't I supposed to like that kind of lifestyle? I feel like somehow I've gotten soft. I feel bad going home after having sex. Depressed, almost. I think what I need is a girlfriend. Just one girl so I don't feel so violated all the time. Can anybody relate.