inquiringmind: Hapi,
Did that happen to you, sweetie? I am so sorry! Immaturity come in all shapes, sizes, genders, and colors. Either way, good riddance. Do you emphasize your size? If you do, that could be the problem . A light can not help the critters it attracts. Unfortunately, we have come to view sex as something separate from the whole individual. I think that is why so many people are shocked when they realize that it has emotional and spiritual components too. Perhaps if you wait a while before having sex then it will send the size queens packing. We all know people who not thinking outside themselves serially do things that are hurtful to themselves and others. If some one really cares for you. they will do what is best for you...
Inquiring mind