being with "straight" men

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  1. madman411

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    I've noticed an influx in threads lately regarding men being with other potentially "straight" or "bisexual" men. I figured I'd ask a question which crossed my mind while reading the other threads.

    For those of you who have hooked up or had some sort of sexual relationship with another guy who claimed to be "straight" or "bi curious" (or even married), how did that situation come about? I am wagering to say that many of the incidences I'm referring to came about after alcohol consumption, and please do share your story if that happened to you. I'm more interested in things that happened while you were both sober. Who came on to who, what happened first, how it happened, how far did you get, so on and so fourth. What were your original intentions when meeting up? Were/are you both friends? Do you (or him) still sleep with other women? Do you still see each other? etc.

    I'm oblivious to any kind of signals that someone could possibly be sending me, so I think reading what has happened to you in the past could possibly help me identify this kind of situation should it ever start to evolve. On several occasions in my past I've been under the impression a "straight" guy was coming on to me, although they've all claimed to just like women.
     
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    Back In highschool I hooked up with a friend of mine who was bi curious, it happened because he and I would act "gay" around each other and pass it off as joking (friends of ours called us the cutest gay couple ever) this joking became more and more drastic to the point were we talked about our junk in and sat in each others laps with little discomfort from him. One we talked about porn and how hard it was to find good porn for phones, I introduced him to one of in my oppion the best (mobile.spankwire.com) he was interested in seeing it so we watched it together. He got a ragging hard on and asked to take my phone into the bathroom to get off. I told him hell no and that I didn't want to leave him alone with his dick and phone and told him he could get off right here with me, he was apprehensive at first but I won him over by telling him that now was the perfict chance for him to show off that super wide wang of his (one of the many penis related issuse we talked about) he laughed and wiped it out and we got off togeather for a while with me very obviously ogling his dick. He saw this and jokingly said "why don't you go on and suck it already" I was aware that I was gay but didn't want to let go of the straight guy front that i'd built up, but I also didn't want to give up the chance to have my first gay exprince. I'd setteled on having him as a j/o buddy and told him he'd cum the moment I got my lips around him. He challenged me by saying I couldn't get my lips around his width while wagging his cock around at me, again I eyed and ogeled and thought about if he was serious or not. I decide i'd go for it and gagged half way down, he laughed at me and told me I was the worst dick sucker ever. I honestly felt a bit ashamed and thought i'd just used a good friend for some (lame) gratifaction I staired into the distance for a while andonly realized what was going on when I found him between my legs saying "let me try" he went down pretty easy and I loved it, he got me off to the point of coming in his mount. I try'd to return the favor but I could never get past the gag. Anyhow it was a bit aquward once we had both blow our loads and despite what he'd done to me I though he think me too queer to hang out with but he settled my thoughts by telling me I was a pretty good dick sucker after all. I guess with the signals thing you have to send them out to pick them up, he and I sat next to each other in class and I would make the effort to adjust my crotch when ever his eyes were on me (which lead to the open talk about sex and the gayness and what not). Hope this helps friend.
     
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    Both spellcheck and paragraphs are your friends. I'd suggest you get better acquainted.
     
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    Good story fbswe. Welcome to LPSG.
     
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    I imagine both spellcheck and paragraphs are friendlier and more useful than what you just posted...

    And to be on topic: The majority of the guys I've wound up in bed with happen to a.) identify as straight and b.) be good friends that under the right circumstances felt like going there. There've been occasions where it was awkward afterwards (hot friends I hadn't ever thought to cross the line with, drunkenly making the first move and I was too clueless to see it) , but generally its sort of amusing and a real bonding exersize.

    That said, I'd much rather have sex with guys who are open, comfortable and aware of their sexualities. The "bi-but don't know it" guys can be a bit of a chore to decompress once they actually go through with it.
     
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