Best Advice

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by Philosophical, Aug 29, 2007.

  1. Philosophical

    Philosophical New Member

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    I realise that this has probably been covered many times, but I thought it'd be a good question to ask as my first post :) What advice would you give to a couple who were having long term difficulty in the bedroom purely because of size? i.e. causes discomfort regardless of time spent on foreplay or lubrication used Thanks
     
  2. Love-it

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    We have had this problem for 33 years. My wife has been dilating her vagina and ass with increasing diameter dildos and vibrators for nearly two years and while she can take me in her ass occasionally, vaginally she is only able to take the first 1/3 of my 6.5" x 6.25" girth. And that is a wonderful improvement over the last 32 years. When we were first together she didn't know that sex wasn't supposed to hurt but after a little while I realized that I was hurting her and we pursued many paths over the years. Then two years ago we finally realized that my girth was the problem.

    My wife uses a vibrator on her clitoris while she is dilating and when we try penetration and it helps her to relax and sometimes she likes to watch soft porn while we play.

    Lubrication, relaxation, dilation and vibration.
     
  3. TheRob

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    alcohol
    not too much but just a glass or two is relaxing
     
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