Best Friend Fucking Your Wife
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D_Ephraim Rippedring
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Gotta say mate, I don't think its that healthy (mentally) to want to do that. I guess everyones got there things that turn you on. But isn't a marriage supposed to be a special bond between two people...and only two people? Your kinda breaking that bond by letting that happen. I'm not saying your some type of sicko or something, just you should ask yourself, do you really think this is best for you? And if not, do something about it.
Sorry if I seem to be pushing my beliefs on you, but its just something I thought I should say.:redface:
Sorry if I seem to be pushing my beliefs on you, but its just something I thought I should say.:redface:
- Pye,
I think what many are missing here is that there is a distinction between marriage and sex. Bringing a friend into sex with one's wife can be equated with using sextoys to enhance the experience...it's not for everybody but for some I'm sure it can be quite pleasurable. Those that can maintain this lifestyle successfully must have a very secure marriage.
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Totally agree with you, Pye-man. It is the rare couple, though, that can survive this kind of play intact, just like in my experience being brought into the bed of any couple can be either a shitload of fun, or a very demeaning experience for some. However, the more mature I become, the better my choices seem to be and so I seem to only get the fun ones now!:biggrin1:
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Well I think Tingie made a good point... It is marriage... Allthough sex can be quite attempting, I also don't believe it can do good for your mariage and trust...
D_Ephraim Rippedring
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I can see where you are coming from, but I disagree. Even though you could look at that person like a sextoy, it still isn't one. A person is so much more than a piece of plastic or rubber. The "other man" has feelings and emotions and can react with the wife on a deep level. With, say a dildo, you can't. Its just a object, and whatever you do to it, its still a object which you can't connect to on the same level as a person. Okay, it may work for some people, however it looks like its doing more damage than good.
Valid concerns, but I think there's a serious distinction between bringing someone into your sex life and bringing someone into your marriage. My partnership is a lot more than the sex (whether or not that's a good thing is a topic for another time), and I can bring in a third for whoopie without involving them in things like the mortgage and the in-laws and all of the things that come with the lifetime commitment part, and, honestly? That makes them a *lot* more fun. ;0)
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I never understood that cuckold stuff. as far as I'm concerned, nothing turns me on as much as a woman who is turned on, wet, and totally into whatever sexual situation makes her moan. However there is another consideration.
On time, my ex and I had sex with some of my best male friends. It just happened to work out that way one night. It wasn't planned. We were all on a bed, and my girlfriend and me just started to go at it. Everybody watched for a while, then some joined in. I thought it was great, she had a freaking ball. She loved to be the center of male attention, and this was great for her because it wasn't a gang bang but a little more relaxed. The problem ended up being not my be jealousy, but she had problems with the fact that she had a great sexual experience with guys, ( my friends ) that she didn't particularly like on an emotional level. As you may have learned women's emotions don't always work the same way men's emotions do. She had a hard time reconcileing this
On time, my ex and I had sex with some of my best male friends. It just happened to work out that way one night. It wasn't planned. We were all on a bed, and my girlfriend and me just started to go at it. Everybody watched for a while, then some joined in. I thought it was great, she had a freaking ball. She loved to be the center of male attention, and this was great for her because it wasn't a gang bang but a little more relaxed. The problem ended up being not my be jealousy, but she had problems with the fact that she had a great sexual experience with guys, ( my friends ) that she didn't particularly like on an emotional level. As you may have learned women's emotions don't always work the same way men's emotions do. She had a hard time reconcileing this
MMF action is sooooo fucking hot.
Can anyone provide links here to photos or videos that show the following?
1) The woman is riding the cock of one guy reverse cowgirl, while the other guy licks her clit and licks the fucker's balls and the base of his cock.
2) One guy cums inside the woman and the other guy jerks off onto the cum-filled cunt and onto the fucker's cock and balls
3) The woman holds the cocks together as they rub frenulum-to-frenulum and both explode.
Many thanks.
bi_mmf
Can anyone provide links here to photos or videos that show the following?
1) The woman is riding the cock of one guy reverse cowgirl, while the other guy licks her clit and licks the fucker's balls and the base of his cock.
2) One guy cums inside the woman and the other guy jerks off onto the cum-filled cunt and onto the fucker's cock and balls
3) The woman holds the cocks together as they rub frenulum-to-frenulum and both explode.
Many thanks.
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There's an older porn... mid 90's maybe... called 'Switch Hitters'. You'll find what you're looking for.
D_Eric_the_Bred
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This is my first time posting here, but this is something that I definitely know about. My wife and I are swingers, and have been since the beginning of our relationship. She truly enjoys feeling like a slut when she is sandwiched in between two cocks. I enjoy watching her experience this fun and being a part of it. We have been in several MFM's including my best friends and random people. We have spend nights with couples at our swing club and had some amazing times. One thing that Vanilla people can not seem to understand is how it is not cheating, and I like to draw this parallel.
If I am writing an open book exam it is not cheating to look up the answers, if it is closed book, then it would be be cheating. Cheating has to do with a pre-existing knowledge from all parties. I will admit that I had cheated on my wife with a girl that we used to play with, it was early in our relationship and was very hard for us. She went and had revenge sex which fucked her up even more, but now she has sex with men that she is interested in and we both enjoy that. Its all about communication and consent, pure and simple.
This lifestyle is not for all people for NVT's (non-vanilla thinkers) we love it and as long as we manage to maintain communication it helps to keep our relationships strong!!
I agree Zalder, pumper & bi mmf have made this thread an extremely hot one.
dickinchalotta, i also love your measuring idea. i'd love to see numerous comparisons. after seeing several girth threads and talk about whether folks could fit inside a toilet paper roll, i found that I can, just barely and it's a tight fit (I guess the rolls have openings around 5 inches around) still, it looks kinda funny with it slid down my shaft and part of my shaft and head poking out above it. it's become a big fantasy to think of my wife fitting a roll around my cock and encountering the blatant impossibility of getting the roll onto some 6" or 6.5" or fatter guy.
Like R&R, these things more or less remain my fantasy, but like R&R, my wife is beginning to understand it. We'll see if it leads anywhere
dickinchalotta, i also love your measuring idea. i'd love to see numerous comparisons. after seeing several girth threads and talk about whether folks could fit inside a toilet paper roll, i found that I can, just barely and it's a tight fit (I guess the rolls have openings around 5 inches around) still, it looks kinda funny with it slid down my shaft and part of my shaft and head poking out above it. it's become a big fantasy to think of my wife fitting a roll around my cock and encountering the blatant impossibility of getting the roll onto some 6" or 6.5" or fatter guy.
Like R&R, these things more or less remain my fantasy, but like R&R, my wife is beginning to understand it. We'll see if it leads anywhere
ROFLMAO
Bringing another person into the bedroom is not like a sex toy for the mere fact that no matter how much your wife may enjoy a sex toy, the likes of her running off with that sex toy are slim to none. If you bring another man in the bedroom and he's having great sex with your wife--better than your sex or even close to it--there is a much higher probability for tom foolery when you're not around.
Now why would someone who lets his best friend fuck his wife care if his wife and best friend got together behind his back? Well they could run off together and then he wouldn't have a best friend or a wife.
This basically proves my point that once you engage in this type of lifestyle it is much easier to engage in activity that is classified as cheating.
D_Teasdale Tittithorne
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As the wife, I think an experience like this could make the relationship stronger. And as long as my husband is in control (or at least thinks he is) there's no harm. Just sexual satisfaction for everyone. 
I don't feel as though out-of-the-box sex is a gateway to cheating. If you're honest about this, and honest about what you need and desire, it shouldn't be a problem to have your needs met without there being any jealousy or feelings of betrayal.
I don't feel as though out-of-the-box sex is a gateway to cheating. If you're honest about this, and honest about what you need and desire, it shouldn't be a problem to have your needs met without there being any jealousy or feelings of betrayal.
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D_Eric_the_Bred
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You obviously do not know many swingers do you? The key is communication and both parties have to be ready to communicate. If you do not adhere to the rules that both parties agreed to then you are cheating.
I know more people in monogamous relationships that cheat than swingers that cheat. So you can take that for what its worth. The reason that I cheated was that we were new to the lifestyle and did not know how to communicate openly with my now wife.
Finally, if your partner is going to run off with someone just because they had sex with them then there is more wrong with your relationship than just sex.
Swinging is not for everyone, but close minded people should just accept the fact that they are nvt's and keep their judging to themselves. It is okay to ask questions though!
In the mean time I am going to arrange another mfm with my wife and try and get some pics to share! (this guy's cock is so big he made me feel tiny
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I agree.
For me, it has in fact been an affirmation of the strength of my relationship with wife that she has been able to enjoy fucking with other men -- with or without me in the room participating -- and still wants me as the main man in her life.
I have never felt comfortable with sexual exclusiveness as a basis of a relationship. If jealously keeping her all to myself were the only way that she would remain interested in me, then ours would not be much of a relationship.
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