Totally agree with you, Pye-man. It is the rare couple, though, that can survive this kind of play intact, just like in my experience being brought into the bed of any couple can be either a shitload of fun, or a very demeaning experience for some. However, the more mature I become, the better my choices seem to be and so I seem to only get the fun ones now!:biggrin1:
I agree, and would add that everyone has to be on the same page. Especially if there is any homosexual element involved. You don't want any surprises, otherwise people can get hurt. My first time was a case in point.
I never fucked my best friend's wife, but I did his fuck girlfriend. We were 21. It's a story very similar to dazz61's except I was the invitee. I was out with 'Mike'... not his real name, his gay roomie and his two male cousins one night. I don't remember what we did, but when we got back to Mike's house (an old beach shack) at about 3 am, his girlfriend was there waiting. After an hour or so everyone decided it was time for bed. The cousins and I bedded down in the living room. They had sleeping bags, but as I had not planned to stay over, all I had was a blanket to ward off the chill of a November night in Florida. After about an hour, I had just fallen sleep when Mike was shaking my shoulder and whispered, "You must be cold, why don't you come and sleep with us?" I said I was ok, but he said, "We want you to have sex with us". I said, Are you sure?" He said "yeah, yeah.. it was my idea."
So we went in there and crawled under the covers with her. She was a really nice looking and stacked Italian/American chick from Miami. She started running her hands over my body and telling me how nice and hard it felt and how she'd had the hots for me a long time and how she'd heard I had a big one and how fucking awesome it felt. Meanwhile Mike was fingering her and was soon on top of her, fucking her missionary. I just lay back and watched and I gotta say it was hot. I was physically attracted to Mike and had had fantasies about playing with him ever since we'd met a year earlier. They fucked pretty hard for about 20 minutes and she was coming several times, until he let loose with a helluva load and pumped it all over her tits and then went down and licked his own cum off. She reached over at me and I was on top of her in an instant. Since she was all warmed up already, my fatty just slid right in and it felt so much hotter knowing that Mike had just been in there. She said she loved the thickness of it and started cumming right away again and again. While this was going on Mike was leaning against the headboard watching us, while slowly stroking his cock and rubbing his hands over his abs and chest. Once I noticed this, I couldn't take my eyes off of him. I'd look at his meat and body and fuck her all the harder. I came inside her as he and eye locked eyes on each other. It was about the best orgasm I'd ever had up til then. No one said a word for about a minute until he suggested that we needed a shower and why didn't she go first?
As soon as she was in the bathroom I said "Man that was hot, thanks for sharing her". He came and lay down beside me, put his hand on my chest and said, "I've been wanting to do that with you for months". Then he kissed me! I was really surprised, but opened up and kissed him back and soon we were feeling each other all over and both our cocks were hard. He ran his tongue down acoss my tummy and went right for my dick. He asked if I minded and said "Oh man, please do it". I was shocked that this guy who I had thought was totally str8 and I had a crush on, was going down on my cock!
After 15 or 20 minutes, the bedroom door opens and the gf comes in. She was REALLY fucking shocked and started yelling "Stop it! what are you doing? I can't believe this! You are fucking gay!" Really loud enough to wake the dead. He yelled back at her, "I'm doing what I want to do, shut-up you stupid cunt! Shut-up or get out!" She was crying by then and I'd gone limp in his hand. LOL So she got her clothes on and stormed out of the house, yelling something about "you gay bastards!"
Well everyone was awake by then and standing around in their shorts wondering WTF just happened. Mike and I went back to a the bedroom and shut the door. He wanted carry on where he'd left off, but I was too worked up and needed to settled down. So we talked about it and both of us admitted to the other we'd had the hots for each other for a long time but were afraid of the other's reaction, not wanting to wreck a good friendship, etc., etc. So we started to laugh about what had just happened and got naked again and were just getting down to it again when there was a loud knock on the door and it's the roomie announcing that breakfast was ready. Mike said "What the fuck. it's 6am go away!". About 30 seconds later he was back knocking saying, "come on it's getting cold, hurry up"
So we pulled on our jeans and went to the kitchen shirtless, smelling of sex and showing a couple of pretty good bulges in the pants. Roomie was kinda of a fem guy and was having a little snit as he layed out the food. Kinda banging around and not saying anything. The cousins were trying to act normal, but everyone was pretty uncomfortable and the food was eaten in silence except for "Please pass the salt" and "Thanks".
Damn, this is getting too long. I have to break it into two parts.