Uncutpete
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I've never watched my wife fuck other men either, because she didn't want me there. Reason being, she wanted to totally let loose and enjoy the sex, not feel that she's having to worry what I was thinking watching them together.
I am very careful about this issue with my couples. You are the rare hub who is ok with his wife fucking other men but not being there to watch. Usually that inspires much more jealousy than watching. I want both hub and wife to be involved. Usually it is less disruptive of the relationship, and may actually help it. After we talk about it, and the wife expresses her concern about not having to worry about the hub and his feelings, we talk about those feelings. We make rules about the hub not talking and asking for attention. Also, usually the wife and I fuck alone for a large part, maybe all of our first few sessions, so she and I can physically bond without her concerning herself with him. Then he joins us for longer and longer. She becomes used to his being there, and usually can completely disregard him in her own pleasure. I assume that we will continue to be regulars. I want things to last, so both partners should to enjoy it.