Best friend "sleeps" while I jack him off

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I have a straight friend who trusts me enough to sleep in the same bed. Since he has a big one, I have reached under the covers and jerked him off.

The thing that flips me out is that he pretends he is asleep. If I start to bring something like this up, he finds a reason to get mad or changes the topic. In other words, he puts up a fight, but if he wants to get his dick played with he will pretend like he is "asleep".

Anyway, I like it, and it feels good to give him a little some-somethin'. Have you guys ever had this experience? Have you told your girlfriends/wives ... or will you take this to your grave?
 

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yes I have play with his cock but do not bring it up again and keep it to yourself.
I said it before and i will say it again in my 22 years of experience married men make great bottoms
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and most guys who are comfortable with who they are like to have their cocks played with
 

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Yeap I have had the very same experience, dont talk just shut up and enjoy.

I got sick of the onesided behaviour and sat on him one night, took him all the way he was obviously so shocked I did it, that he couldn't pretend to be sleeping any longer. He woke and I said bout time you joined in lol
 

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If you're happy enough to play with his dick while he is 'asleep' then go with it. He obviously feels uncomfortable talking about it and by him pretending to be asleep it is some form of deniability on his behalf. Just go with it, have fun and don't question!
 
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why does it have to be denial? maybe it just feels good. im attracted to women but if a guy wanted to play with my dick then who cares? it feels good. it doesn't mean im gay, because im not actually attracted to the guy. i dont understand why people always point fingers at people for being gay now a days.
 

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I have a straight friend who trusts me enough to sleep in the same bed. Since he has a big one, I have reached under the covers and jerked him off.

The thing that flips me out is that he pretends he is asleep. If I start to bring something like this up, he finds a reason to get mad or changes the topic. In other words, he puts up a fight, but if he wants to get his dick played with he will pretend like he is "asleep".

Anyway, I like it, and it feels good to give him a little some-somethin'. Have you guys ever had this experience? Have you told your girlfriends/wives ... or will you take this to your grave?
Stop raping your friend! Seriously, didn't your mom tell you to keep your hands to yourself?

If he doesn't consent you are raping him. Perhaps he gets mad or changes the subject because he is uncomfortable with your molestation, but due to other unknown factors, is unable say "get your damn hands off me, asshole!". Just a bee for your bonnet.
 

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The thing that flips me out is that he pretends he is asleep. If I start to bring something like this up, he finds a reason to get mad or changes the topic. In other words, he puts up a fight, but if he wants to get his dick played with he will pretend like he is "asleep".

Maybe if you give him a blow job, he'd go into a coma! :biggrin1:
 

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Quite simply put, he's conflicted...feels both pleasure and pain.
ie: It Feels SOOO GOOOD, but Guilt feels SOOO BAD.
So if he "pretends" he's just floating on down de nile...let him be,
He wants the sexual release and relief because it feels good,
and by pretending he's not involved...he feels better than having to
deal with the feelings that are disturbing to him.
As they say "let a sleeping dog lie"...and if "ignorance is Bliss"..
well then I'd pretty much have to say let him lie in Bliss!
Heck we're all reaching for relief in some way or another eh?
And if it feels good it usually is. Ok I'll get off the pulpit now LOL:smile:
Next?
 
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If he really was upset or offended he wouldn't have "allowed" you to share a bed (or even the same room!) with him afterwards. I agree with most others here. You are getting something you want and all that is required of you is to go along with his pretensions. Sounds like win/win to me.
Oh, and don't let anyone make you think it is rape!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Chockokittie can't be serious.
 

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why does it have to be denial? maybe it just feels good. im attracted to women but if a guy wanted to play with my dick then who cares? it feels good. it doesn't mean im gay, because im not actually attracted to the guy. i dont understand why people always point fingers at people for being gay now a days.

Well said, girls can do so much more on girls gone wild videos, in sorriority parties/bars, etc, on Howard Stern, etc. etc. etc., and no one calls them gay if they also do it with guys.

The labeling is one reason young guys r afraid to even try a lil fun that feels good sometimes, just cause all of a sudden nowadays everyone wants to quickly label them forever.
 

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If he really was upset or offended he wouldn't have "allowed" you to share a bed (or even the same room!) with him afterwards. I agree with most others here. You are getting something you want and all that is required of you is to go along with his pretensions. Sounds like win/win to me.
Oh, and don't let anyone make you think it is rape!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Chockokittie can't be serious.
I am extremely serious!
This act lacks consent; if you want to argue he hasn't objected, that only fits within the broadest and most archaic definition of consent. Meaning, he didn't object, so he wanted it. However, if the man truly is sleeping, and no one posting absolutely knows if he isn't, he is being raped.

Also, as I wrote earlier, no one knows why the person may not be speaking up. It could be a previous experience, not wanting to lose a friend, lack of assertiveness, etc. It has been acknowledged that afterwards he was disturbed and there are numerous ways to interpret that reaction. But go ahead and continue to believe that someone sharing a bed or a room gives them sexual license.

Obviously there is something wrong with asking before touching and than moving forward after receiving consent to continue? I can't speak for any other person in this thread, but I usually do not touch someone sexually, unless they are a) obviously conscious and b) consenting.
But that's just how I was raised. :rolleyes:

Carry on.
 
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I am extremely serious!
This act lacks consent; if you want to argue he hasn't objected, that only fits within the broadest and most archaic definition of consent. Meaning, he didn't object, so he wanted it. However, if the man truly is sleeping, and no one posting absolutely knows if he isn't, he is being raped.

Also, as I wrote earlier, no one knows why the person may not be speaking up. It could be a previous experience, not wanting to lose a friend, lack of assertiveness, etc. It has been acknowledged that afterwards he was disturbed and there are numerous ways to interpret that reaction. But go ahead and continue to believe that someone sharing a bed or a room gives them sexual license.

Obviously there is something wrong with asking before touching and than moving forward after receiving consent to continue? I can't speak for any other person in this thread, but I usually do not touch someone sexually, unless they are a) obviously conscious and b) consenting.
But that's just how I was raised. :rolleyes:

Carry on.
The boy did allow his friend to sleep in his bed. That alone suggests room for questionable motive. If I didn't want someone to fool around with me in my "sleep" then they would be in another room. It's a bold move for a guy to let another guy sleep in his bed.
 
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