Best Friend's Father

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by DesertCruiser, Jan 8, 2010.

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    I was watching LOGO yesterday and a movie titled MULLIGANS came on. It was about two young guys who were best of friends and one was staying for a summer at his friend's. He came out to his friend and then to his friend's father only to end up having an affair with the father. Has this happened in real life to any of you? Or wish it had?
     
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    nope but I could only imagine if I were gay, there would not be many fathers that would turn me on.
     
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    you can say that now but believe me there's a lot of hunky Dads out there.
    And as you get older you keep raising the threshold.
    We're not after their sons we lust after them themselves!
    My favourite retort, to redneck, hetero, bogans,
    is "I fucked your father!"
    (Self preservation alone stops me saying it)
     
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    To some degree, I think this is a quick way to ruin a real life friendship. However, I think the topic itself is interesting, because it seems plausible. There are a few porn vids out there that follow this very topic, or close to it. I have never heard of this in reality, though.
     
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    ...goodness, go shopping at Walmart, there's all kinds of Dad's just aching for a release.
     
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    This is somewhat similar. I was sbstitute teaching in Palm Springs and ran into one of my students in a restaurant and he was with his Dad. Just so happened that his DAD and I had been together the night before. Kind of a funny coincidence.
     
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    Or Home Depot, Lowes or any home improvement store. There's always some hunky dads around.
     
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    Never know who you're going to meet in pubic after being in private!!!
     
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    in pubic? :eek:
     
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    DesertCruiser, I also saw that film, and the actor playing the friend's father is SUPER-HOT!! I didn't catch his name, and I've not seen him in any other films, but--my goodness!--the man is super-sexy!!

    I also agree with the two responders who said that a lot of hot Daddy-types shop at places like Wal-mart and Lowe's and Home Depot, etc. As a gay man who is really turned on by macho daddy-types, I often go to these stores and see a lot of sexy (and apparently well-hung) daddy types walking around.

    Someone else also mentioned that daddy-and-son type sex is often the topic of gay porn films. In the 70's or so, there was a very HOT porn film called Chip Off the Old Block, about daddy-types having sex with younger son-type men. (It wasn't actually promoting real incest; it was mainly more mature men having hot sex with young 20-somethings who were the same age as their sons could have been.)

    At any rate, I turn on much more to mature daddy-types rather than hairless "twinks." Give me a MAN over a boy anyday! :wink:
     
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    I wonder how someone would feel if they were a father and a "Daddy type" was moving in on their son....maybe another topic?

    Let's say so it's not too creepy kind of thing the son is 18-20 years old or so.

    If a Daddy type was putting the moves on YOUR son I have a feeling, whether YOU as a man are gay or not, you would want to pound the shit out of him.
     
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    To paraphrase Les Nessman, "That's funny weird, not funny haha."
     
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    You said it, girl.
     
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    What's so weird about DesertCruiser hooking up with a former student's dad? It's unclear to me if the dad was still married from what he wrote. Perhaps he's just a gay guy who fathered a child early in life like many guys have done before coming out. Let's not jump to conclusions.
     
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    That's hot.
     
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    Do you mean weird in a statistically remote coincidence way or weird in a judgmental way in that it's wrong somehow?

    Apparently they were two consenting adults. Presumably neither one would have any way of know the one had been a substitute teacher for the other's son. I don't see where anyone did anything wrong here. In fact, even that they now know, I still don't see anything wrong if they want to go for seconds.

    Every sex partner or potential sex partner has some connection to someone you know. It's just the relationships are too complex to be easily visible. If you eliminate everyone who might possibly know someone who knows someone who knows someone you know, you won't be able to have sex with anybody.
     
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    Exactly my point earlier BigD. I can't speak for the two posters who thought it weird, but I would hope they meant it was an awkward situation or as you put it weird in a statistically remote way.
     
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    As i was growing up me and my best friend both came out to each other at around the same time Ive known my best friend since i was around 8 years old so the friendship is 21 years old. Our families are both very close becuase we all grew up with each other my best friends little sister is a good friend of mine and is also my sisters best friend. His oldest brother is a good friend of ours as well and his wife is also one of my sisters best friends. My sister dated the second eldest brother in the family for 5 years.

    When i was 18 i dated my best friends father for about 6 months it ended amicibly because we both understood the age gap made it difficult i think more than anything it was just a self exploration on both parts. For me it was a little bit of hero worship because my best friends dad was also my sisters primary school teacher and a well respected teacher by every-one even today i still see him as a gentle buddha even though his gone and pierced everything in sight lol
     
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    My best friend's dad used to walk around their house in one of those 'terrycloth-towel' wraps...thought he was sexy as Hell. Lots of fantasy-jerkin', about it, but never really thought, at the time, to pursue an encounter....Hot hot man, tho. (Thanks for the memories, Mr.K!)
     
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    And therein lies a lesson for all you 18 year olds -- Sleep with guys in their 30's or 40's before it's too late!!!!!! :biggrin1:
     
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