What are some of the best cities/gayborhoods, in the United States and around the world? A little about me I'm 24, currently looking for a new job so thats not an issue, and I want to relocate to a place where I won't feel like an outsider anymore. What I mean by outsider is that for my entire live except when I was away at school, and studying abroad, I've fell totally out of place living in a Midwestern suburb of a larger city (Indianapolis), that is pretty conservative, and doesn't have a very open/accepting general character. It would be great to find a place that has gay young adults that are not all about bars and sex, and where there are some social groups, sports clubs, etc. as a means of getting to know people without the use of the internet.