Best Lube For Toys/ass Play

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I find that regular lube to be too thin for ass play with toys and hands. Any suggestions for what works best. Are there good water based ones (easier cleanup) that stay wet and reduce friction. Any and all suggestions welcome.
 

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Water based lubes are going to always have a shorter time limit on their durability than something with a more aggressive form of oil or silicone. There are a number of "hybrid" lubes out there that have a mix of water-based and some silicone formulations that last a lot longer than water-based alone but wash off more easily and don't stain nearly as much.

Personally, I've used a brand called "JO" that makes a Hybrid version that works well for... well... jerking off, but also works for ass play. It's non staining, and lasts quite a long time. It's available many places, including Amazon. They also make a water-based lube called "H2O Anal" that seems to have a bit more oil in it that helps with lasting a bit longer than a number of others.

Wet also makes a variety of Hybrid lubes in their "Wet Elite" and "Wet Gold" lines.

Finally, Mr S Leather sells something called "Spit" that is a water-based lube but has a formulation that can be reactivated with very little moisture... so the idea is that if it feels like it's wearing out, you just spit on it a little and you're back in business without having to do a full reapplication.

In any case, give the hybrids a try.
 
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Depends on what the toy is made of. Never use silicone lube with silicone toys. Generally water based is the best for toys but you do sacrifice the amount of time you can play because water based lube doesn't last very long but it's usually safe for any type of toy and easy to cleanup. Like someone else mentioned I'd probably try coconut oil which seems to be safe for the body but probably not as easy to cleanup.
 

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Depends on what the toy is made of. Never use silicone lube with silicone toys. Generally water based is the best for toys but you do sacrifice the amount of time you can play because water based lube doesn't last very long but it's usually safe for any type of toy and easy to cleanup. Like someone else mentioned I'd probably try coconut oil which seems to be safe for the body but probably not as easy to cleanup.
Coconut oil is MUCH easier to clean up over silicone. Easier on the sheets, floors and makes a great moisturizer!
 

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Its difficult to find a lube that lasts any time for serious playtime with toys so have just gotten used to the idea that I pull out lube up again and start again. Its no so much that the toys take in the lubes as much as the body, even playing with a cucumber for a session I need to lube a lube again before I climax - and a cucumber is very green and ethically perfect.
One the other front when its a bareback job a recent lover introduced me to the joys of Brycream, wow, it makes for a smooth long fuck and cleans up quite easily - much better than olive oil!
 
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Its difficult to find a lube that lasts any time for serious playtime with toys so have just gotten used to the idea that I pull out lube up again and start again. Its no so much that the toys take in the lubes as much as the body, even playing with a cucumber for a session I need to lube a lube again before I climax - and a cucumber is very green and ethically perfect.
One the other front when its a bareback job a recent lover introduced me to the joys of Brycream, wow, it makes for a smooth long fuck and cleans up quite easily - much better than olive oil!

I think it's a thicker lube that does the trick for me. Reduces the friction. The last one I bought is fine for a dick but didn't seem slippery enough for large toys.
 

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I think it's a thicker lube that does the trick for me. Reduces the friction. The last one I bought is fine for a dick but didn't seem slippery enough for large toys.
I know that feeling when the toys are bigger than the cocks yet the cocks ride smooth!
 
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I second coconut oil. It lasts well and i use it with quite large toys
 
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Coconut oil is MUCH easier to clean up over silicone. Easier on the sheets, floors and makes a great moisturizer!
I agree. All my toys are silicone and they pair well with coconut oil.
 
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