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    Just wondering if anyone has managed to see their best mates cock and how they went about it? Im interested to see my friend's cock but not sure how to see. Im str8 and so is he but would love to have a jerk off session. Often stay over at each others houses.
     
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    shower with him!
     
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    whenever i've jacked with a new bud, we've always started by talking about chicks we've banged or watching porn - gets things in the mood and typically you both bone up while still fully clothed. once you've both clearly boned up, someone (probably you in this case) needs to take the lead and suggest jerking off - or just drop trou and go for it - whatever you are comfortable with. it's a risk, sure, but it's worth it if he goes along. have fun bro !
     
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    i m agree with this suggestion.
     
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    The most common places are the gym locker room, camping, or changing in/out of swim trunks.
     
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    You have to get things in the mood in first place. As someone suggested, talking about sex and watching porn is a classic. I've tried it many times and it always worked. But remember that things take time. You cannot just put on a porn and take it out. Maybe the first time you watch porn together, you will not jerk. But confidence must be gained through little steps.

    If you stay at each other's place quite often, you can start by walking in the room (with an excuse, like acting as if you had to get your pijama trousers)as you both wake up, with your morning wood in your underwear and say something like: "sorry for my morning wood" and laugh. This will help him and you feel more comfortable with each other. Also, coming out of the shower and taking your towel off before wearing your underwear would help.

    Once you have a little more confidence, you can start talking about sex and later watching porn....when you first watch porn, just make fun of your hardons and maybe use the excuse of :"Oops it's almost coming out of my pants!", without whipping it out right away. Just showing and touching yours but in a subtle way.
    By that time you'll have noticed how he reacts to this. If you see he's free enough and horny enough you can go for it and taking it out....

    I know it seems quite a long proceidure but it is worhty it and you don't get troubles if he dislikes the idea. He will simply say: "hey man, what are you doing?" etc. If he does react so, don't give up but slow things down. Sometimes it takes more time and confidence...if the thing really upsets him, then drop the idea!;-)
     
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    I agree with all of the above but maybe have a few beers to loosen the mood...
     
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    The beers is a good idea. Then if it gets uncomfortable, or the next day, you can blame the alcohol.
     
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    I used this one once: my foreskin was a bit tight, and a doc suggested cirucmcision, so I spoke to my friend openly about it, and asked him to show me how his skin retracted...he obliged willingly, more than once, I showed him mine too. Lol. By the way, my skin loosened up in time with certain stretching routines.
     
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    I'm interested in this too. I've been working on a while at it. What I do is when he comes over for a night and we play games all night and start drinking. I'll take a shower and put on some pajamma bottoms and the more tipsy we get I open the fly and slowly show more, and eventually we'll watch a porn, and I'll pull it out and go at it, but he hides his and never shows it, just touching through his pants.
     
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    Great suggestion beltboy! Fightinghunger your post just made me remember what at the time was (I didn't realize it til much later) "a missed opportunity". This buddy of mine was pulling a Kramer and I could see everything! At the time though I was clueless and said/did nothing. Oh well.....
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    My best friend and I had passes to a local gym. After a while there, we discovered there was a men only section downstairs. The section was pretty much clothing optional so most of the men were nude. There was additional equipment like exercise bikes and treadmills. There were towels everywhere for use.

    After a few days, we finally got up enough nerve to venture out nude. It was quite exhilirating - and fun. We hung out in the swimming pool watching television or the hot tub. It was cool. Nothing sexual about it.

    Simba
     
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    Hmmm...now that I'm thinking about it..my ex boyfriend from years ago always went to the sauna with his best mate.. They were both sauna freaks..

    hmmm....I guess i must have been naieve or something ;-) ..LOL
     
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    Seeing a friends dick is one thing, mutual jerkoff is a lot harder to pull off, no pun intended. The easiest way to begin this journey is to let him see yours first. Most of my friends have seen my dick, but i am kinda a exhibitionist. The easiset way to show off is to take a leak in front of them, but if youre sleeping over at each others houses, next time sleep butt naked, and tell him you just discovered the joy of sleeping nude.
    Taking it to the next level starts with talking about jerking off. In high school I told a friend that i my sister had walked in on me the day before and how embarassed I was. That led to him to telling me he was "caught" once too. That led to talking about how often we did it, and a few days later I "excused" myself to go take care of my horniness, and he just shrugged and said no need to leave.
     
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    My best friend has no shame. He never has, and never will. It was not uncommon for him to streak through our apartment completely naked, regardless of who was there. Growing up, I was forced to be MUCH more reserved than that.

    One evening when I got home from work, I took a shower, and came out of the bathroom in nothing but a towel wrapped around my waist. I stopped in the kitchen to grab a glass of water and while I was standing there, he yanked my towel off of me and ran away with it. I, of course, chased him down and retrieved it. Before he gave it back to me, he said "now you can quit being so fucking shy around me. I've seen your cock. You have nothing left to hide". We both laughed, and I never did the "towel dance" through our apartment in front of him ever again.

    He's 100% straight and is married with kids now, and we never had a jerkoff sessions or anything like that, but it was definitely liberating to finally shed the shame of nudity that was instilled in me growing up in a very conservative household. Even now that he knows I'm gay (he didn't find out about that until a few years later), he still has no problem being naked in front of me.

    I'm not so bold as to walk around naked in front of any of my other friends since then, but I am much more likely to walk around in my underwear in front of my friends than I was back then.
     
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    Just my quick 2 cents worth: I was at the gym with my best friend and managed to get a peek of his cock and then a most strange feeling of guilt overcame me. Like I had somehow betrayed his trust. Anyway, maybe that was just me.
     
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    I go to the gym a lot and always get naked and shower. Whenever I bring my friends I bring them into the locker room so we have seen each other naked. I have only been able to jerk with a couple of them using some of the above ways. I'm working on my new roommate who I have seen soft but I think we need to compare hard soon.
     
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    i always wished that things would develop with my mate. i remember staying around his when we were 18 just before uni and in the morning he showered then got dressed in the bedroom. he was so hung and i always had to make an excuse to wait to get my shower otherwise i'd show him a huge boner.

    maybe i should've done that anyway...
     
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    What an interesting post.....never done anything like this before! And noticing that a lot of your guys posting list yourselves as straight....even more interesting. I get hard when I see another guy -- and am married and straight....

    Serious question -- if I jack with another dude -- isnt that a gay thing?? Sorry to sound naive -- just didnt know how else to say it
     
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    Never had a problem seeing my best friend naked. We have been know to shower together to save the hot water.
     
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