What part of the male orgasm do you enjoy the best. 1) The part just prior to ejaculation where the body and cock tenses up and holds for a brief period. 2) The actruall ejaculation part with the pulsating release of semen For me it's the build up and full body tense up just prior to ejaculation. Some times I almost faint from this tense up being so strong. I feel like the orgasm wasn't complete when this part is light.