Being female, I cannot answer the exact question you asked. But I can tell you this story. The first guy I ever had sex with was huge. Let's say his name was "Pete." He must have been about 10 inches long and quite thick. When he walked into the room with his pants off, and I saw how big it was soft, I was quite pleased. It hurt at first, but once I got through that it felt fabulous. I was still young and shy so I didn't comment on his size, but I was amazed and delighted.
He was living in a house with 3 other (gay) guys, and he himself was bisexual. Some years later I ran into one of his former roommates, who had been my friend in high school. I asked about "Pete" and my friend smirked and said, "Oh you mean" ...and held up his hands about a foot apart, meaning "big dick". I suspect Pete told his roommates that we had had sex, otherwise why would my friend assume I knew about Pete's size?