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OMG, I saw this book in a book store probably 15 years ago. It was $11 at the time I think. Now I see it for sale used on E-Bay or Amazon etc for anywhere from $135 to $200. It's that good and people want to buy copies for friends or as wedding presents etc.
Good news, it is being reissued on Dec 24 of this year. I'm placing 3 orders -- 2 gifts for now and a spare for a gift later. Don't remember the price but it's not crazy like the used copies are now on the Internet
Anyway it's called "Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love: Flash Cards for Real Life."
It's a little larger than 3 x 5 cards spiral bound on the left side. It's basically just a list of better ways (less angry, less threatening, less controlling) of saying things. Each sentence is on a separate card. I would never flip through it and hold it up to someone of course like a real flash card but I guess if you're so angry or so choked up I suppose you could do that if you had to. But just having read through it you see how you could have worded something a little better in the past and kept a fight from escalating or going off on a tangent.
Let's face it we all have the same fights with our SO's, and judging from my experience and people I've talked to plus sitcoms and movies, the same "lines" get used in these fights. Lines that are not helpful. This book gives you a different way of approaching it. A little more subtle and a lighter touch. Admittedly not my strong point which is why I'm such a fan of this book.
Anyway, FWIW.
If you don't want to buy it sight unseen, look through it in the bookstores after it comes out and I think most of you will really like it.
Good news, it is being reissued on Dec 24 of this year. I'm placing 3 orders -- 2 gifts for now and a spare for a gift later. Don't remember the price but it's not crazy like the used copies are now on the Internet
Anyway it's called "Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love: Flash Cards for Real Life."
It's a little larger than 3 x 5 cards spiral bound on the left side. It's basically just a list of better ways (less angry, less threatening, less controlling) of saying things. Each sentence is on a separate card. I would never flip through it and hold it up to someone of course like a real flash card but I guess if you're so angry or so choked up I suppose you could do that if you had to. But just having read through it you see how you could have worded something a little better in the past and kept a fight from escalating or going off on a tangent.
Let's face it we all have the same fights with our SO's, and judging from my experience and people I've talked to plus sitcoms and movies, the same "lines" get used in these fights. Lines that are not helpful. This book gives you a different way of approaching it. A little more subtle and a lighter touch. Admittedly not my strong point which is why I'm such a fan of this book.
Anyway, FWIW.
If you don't want to buy it sight unseen, look through it in the bookstores after it comes out and I think most of you will really like it.