best sex toy for a couple! straight couple that is.... lol

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  1. blkteg

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    sooooo.... i need some ideas for something new.... i already have purchased a small vibrator that i use on my gf... its about 6 inches long... hard plastic... maybe 4 inches around... not really anything special... she enjoys it, but i wish i wouldn;t of bought hard plastic.... and so small.... and i also have a butt plug... that i use on her when i fuck her... she really likes it... it is silicone and about 4 inches around.... maybe 3 or 4 inches long... just thinking of something you girls enjoy! i wana suprise her with something new... but can't really think of anything.... i'm 7.25 x about 5.25 to 5.5 at the base... not really wanting anything to out do me...lol but any advice or ideas would help! i;m up for new things with her! and she is to! any links to the stuff would be great!

    also what kind of material do you girls like? hard stuff? gelly stuff? we have only experimented with the hard plastic... and she likes it ok... but nothing special.... plus its small..
     
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    The only sex toy my wife has ever been interested in at all is a live cock for MMF action.

    "Why settle for something plastic or rubber when you can have the real thing?" I can't argue with that.
     
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    "the cone" is pretty cool too.
    i think the company that makes it is called "twisted"
     
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    I think the new "we-vibe" is the numero uno selling toy for couples right now. It's fairly expensive, but stimulates both. We have only been using toys since Christmas, but I find I prefer anything that vibrates to have various speeds. Some cockrings do this and the battery can be removed also. I have learned that not all toys are non-toxic, so look for those that are. I'm sure she would like it if you purchased a sexy outfit for her and boxed it all up with a pretty bow :). A new outfit includes shoes, thigh highs and an accessory or two. Make sure you look at the size tags in her pants and top! You could do the whole thing for under $100.00. You can be the sex toy:)
     
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    Hitachi Magic Wand.

    It's always good to have one of them in your toy box. You will not regret it.
     
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    Something bendy like latex vibes, gels, or a stiff vibe that pulses & throbs. You can also get those bullet vibes that she can use on her clit while you're having sex. Handcuffs are a laugh too!

    More importantly don't leave yourself out! If your gonna be spending all that time on her, make sure she's spending the time on you, coz once it's one way traffic, it's hard to break the cycle, believe me, even if it's only putting on titty porn while she's sucking you. Quid pro quo!
     
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    I second the vote for the Hitachi Magic Wand. It's the first sex toy I ever bought that worked every time. It can be a bit intense for some women. It also gives a damned good muscle massage for non-sexy times, like when you've been at the gym a bit much :)
     
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    I have my doubts about women using vibrators more than once in a while, even though they have been around for a long, long time. I've had a couple of partners who professed to use them quite a bit, and it was clear that their clits lacked senstivity, and bringing them to orgasm was very, very difficult. But not impossible. I put this down to their vibrators causing desensitisation, which is something I subsequently read about somewhere.

    When vibrators first came into use, which was the late nineteenth century, the world was sexually ignorant and almost all Western men wouldn't have known a thing about the female orgasm. We've moved on since then, and using tongue or fingers, most men on this forum can help their partners to orgasm without any problems.

    I think if used only once in a while they are okay, but semi-regular use might be a problem.

    I don't know if this would work for your girl, but my wife enjoys being sexually submissive from time to time. So, when I think of an excuse, she might end up being tethered to the corners of the bed, blindfolded, vibrated to orgasm, and then fucked. This suits her sexual personna, as does a bit of spanking if she's been naughty, and then a good fucking to teach her a lesson. Nothing hard, just role-play with a harder edge. Other women like being sexually dominant, but that doesn't work so well with me 'cause I'm a dominant personality to start with. But to each their own.
     
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    I saw in a store yesterday a toy that was basically a wheel of tongues. The lady behind the counter put batteries in the floor model, and let me feel it work with my finger. It seemed delightful. We were already spending a few hundred dollars on other things and left the $70 toy behind. We'll get it another time. I can see many applications for such a thing while my husband's mouth is otherwise occupied. (Or while he's tied ass up over a chair...)
     
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