kermit,
I really am delighted you're with us. As expected, you are already making such a terrific contribution around here! Keep those comments coming!
However--
Do you know what I REALLY hope for you as you're with us in the LPSG? --Re-read this:
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"... Its actually pretty amazing how much time a guy such as myself can spend just trying to find ways to hide my penis. anyways....."
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Kermit! --I hope you can "lighten up"
..........on yourself, just a bit.
Your very first post earlier this week indicated your self-consciousness, disdain and overall disgust(?) with your big size. You even called it a "curse" I recall. I grant you--you are among the bigger guys around this forum!
But I want you to begin to ACCEPT your size over time as a GOOD thing--even look upon it as an asset! Many, many men would love to be in your shoes. Right now, you will no doubt argue that point. I can (somewhat) relate to that. Honestly, I suppose it's important to acknowledge there is really no "ideal" way to (totally) conceal a size like yours. And that's okay. What you can do is use discretion (which I think you're doing!)
when you know you'll be in certain situations where revealing "too much" would certainly cause a stir. Clothing choices are important.
However, with that said, showing "something" should not be such a traumatic experience for you overall to where you hate life itself! I had to learn this and it came (mostly) from reading other guys' comments right here in this community. I have accepted "showing" is something that's going to happen--no matter how much I try not to! (I'm finally getting somewhat of a kick just knowing others might be envying me! It's kind of a rush!---in a good way, that is. I think we SHOULD be allowed to feel positively about ourselves over this personal characteristic. It doesn't mean we have to be obnoxious about it though! Or, become exhibitionists per se). We just shouldn't become all uptight over this matter to the point it "complicates" and takes away from enjoying our lives.
But the main thing here I want to say is that there ARE ways for you to have a wonderful, meaningful, purposeful life with your size. I don't consider you are "borderline neurotic" over all this, but I sense a real inner frustration over your size....life-long struggles perhaps which should (by now) start easing up. Being in the cyberspace company of other "big men" (as you are here) has got to be a wonderful avenue of hope and encouragement for you. It's the one time in your life (without being ashamed or embarrassed!) whereby you can finally voice what's been "bottled up" deep inside all your life...how to deal with having a big penis.
Compared to other men in the more "average" range, sure, you will need to consider some compromises dealing with your size...(you already have some ideas "what" these may be.) That's okay, too! Other men in this forum have overcome many obstacles due to being super-endowed. They have, and continue to share their stories, life's experiences, and SUCCESSES! These are the steps (reading and sharing with us) which you can take day by day to help you see that you're not by yourself afterall. I think this is one of the best messages each of us comes away with here as members--we're not alone!---other guys think, experience, and feel the same way about their penis, --especially should it be "big". Where else on earth can a man have this freedom of expression on this important topic? (that is, important to us! ;D )
We love hearing from you, Kermit. And, you certainly need to tell us what's on your mind and in your heart.
We're only too glad to listen, emphathize, and otherwise "be here" for you.
I for one though, look forward to when I can start hearing that you are feeling better about yourself and can be more positive overall about "being hung". I'd like to think you're already on your way just by being with us.
Obviously, there is indeed lots more to you than just "swinging a big one" and your thoughtful posts tell us just that! It is high time that you celebrate your manhood in a really positive way while yet recognizing too, that you're a terrific fella in all the right ways beyond your size! Okay?